Would you get into a relationship, With a soldier going to Iraq?? Options

[*icecreamisyummy*]

So this guy ive been talking to has asked me to be his gf twice now. the first time i said no, because i hadn't seen him in a while. Now he jsut found out he'll be sent back to Iraq in about 2 weeks and asked to be my bf again...but in much serious terms. I really do like him and he really likes me. My best friend is against it and doesnt want me doing it because of the emotional impact it will cause.

now the other problem is, i just got otu of a serious relationship about a month or so ago. me and my ex still hang out* and what not. we both love one another, but we've had our issues and he said theres no chance between us now after what happened this past weekend. in a way i wanna believe him, but idk if he's being serious or not... i mean, he keeps showing up at my house he keeps calling.

so do i get into a relationship with someone who will be able to give me everythign and treat me how i should be treated, after he gets bck from iraq, or do i just sit around waiting for the guy i love to come to his senses?

of course theres more to all this but i dont want to bore you guys.

[shoryuken]

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[icecreamisyummy]

^ *throw a note to icecreamisyummy that say .. go to the girlslockroom and go to the thread that say "Slut"*

in there i said everything i needed to say about girls in general. You seem to be one of those girls..

I understand girls are all about feelings, but you HAVE GOT to think outside the box sometimes. You're still young why would you wait for that f****t to come back...? Seems like he's one greedy mofo and you're just a confused/naived girl.

who ever said i was f***ing those 3 guys??? the only one ive been messing with is my ex, and he's the ONLY guy ive ever messed around with.

The fact that i have not only 3 BUT 4 guys ( i never mentioned the 4th one) wanting to be in a some sort of relationship wit me doesnt mean im a slut. just meeans im damn good looking and guys actually like me and my personality. when i say physically attracted i mean, he thinks im hott i htink he's hott end of story. does not mean we're f*ckign each other.

Yes i'm young only 18, but my ass is out of high school, I'm an adult. which means I'm well aware of my decisions and whats right and wrong. I mean how many times have you thought back to when you were a kid and thought, " oh damn, maybe i shouldnt have done that, what was i thinking" no matter what it was.

Yes, I'm a girl. yes there is the whole emotional stuff and what not. ive never been through what im going through right now. i never let my emotional side get to me until now. ive been able to tackle everything on my own.

idk maybe its the fact that i just moved 1000 miles away from home. away from family and friends.

I have guys interested in me. no i dont dress "slutty" i dont like showing off my legs, and i dont liek showing off my body at all. no im not sefl conscious, but i know better.

***forget about closing this, just leave it open i guess.