Is it wrong to be a virgin in high school? |
Is it wrong to be a virgin in high school? |
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![]() One Love. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Duplicate Posts: 1,079 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 410,480 ![]() |
cuz most guys lose it during their freshman/sophomore year in high school .. dats wat i heard
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![]() RyanIsCoolerThanYou<3 ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 514 Joined: May 2007 Member No: 525,502 ![]() |
It can go one of two ways, if you lose your virginity early on, you either become extremely jaded and think sex is nothing and is as easy and non-emotional as pouring a glass of water, or your going to have sex with someone you "think" you love, and when they dump you and start having sex with someone else you think it's the end of the world. As weird as it may sound, scenario number two is the better, you'll grow tremendously from it. I thought I was in love and when we decided to take a break and we saw other people, I thought it was just a break, so no I wasn't having sex with this new girl, but then I find out she's having sex with this new guy, it crushed me...but I realized something, it only made me emotionally strong, and looking back on it I realized she was just a f**king slut all along.
Sure not losing your virginity in high school will lead to the occasional "weird sex talk", where every guy boasts about how many girls they've had sex with, and your the odd virgin out, but think about it, just because your a virgin, it doesn't make you any less of a man or a woman, I've slept with many girls while going through my "player" phase, I regret every single one it doesn't feel good to be with someone just to "get it over with", and not be a virgin anymore, so wait, find someone you love, or think you might love, share that with them, and grow from it & this isn't coming from some parent or someone with some vast knowledge of the universe, I'm only 16..well almost 17, & I'm on the same field as you, I just happen to be on the other side, and looking back, I wish I was still over there with you. In the end, it's all up to you, but one way or another it will happen and if things don't happen perfectly, don't beat yourself up over it, it happens to us all...it's part of growing up, and growing up emotionally. ** And I know this is my first post in literally months, and yes, I'm back ![]() |
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