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Is it wrong to be a virgin in high school?
JerzDevil
post Mar 12 2007, 07:53 PM
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cuz most guys lose it during their freshman/sophomore year in high school .. dats wat i heard blink.gif
 
 
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post Nov 11 2007, 01:24 PM
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It can go one of two ways, if you lose your virginity early on, you either become extremely jaded and think sex is nothing and is as easy and non-emotional as pouring a glass of water, or your going to have sex with someone you "think" you love, and when they dump you and start having sex with someone else you think it's the end of the world. As weird as it may sound, scenario number two is the better, you'll grow tremendously from it. I thought I was in love and when we decided to take a break and we saw other people, I thought it was just a break, so no I wasn't having sex with this new girl, but then I find out she's having sex with this new guy, it crushed me...but I realized something, it only made me emotionally strong, and looking back on it I realized she was just a f**king slut all along.

Sure not losing your virginity in high school will lead to the occasional "weird sex talk", where every guy boasts about how many girls they've had sex with, and your the odd virgin out, but think about it, just because your a virgin, it doesn't make you any less of a man or a woman, I've slept with many girls while going through my "player" phase, I regret every single one it doesn't feel good to be with someone just to "get it over with", and not be a virgin anymore, so wait, find someone you love, or think you might love, share that with them, and grow from it & this isn't coming from some parent or someone with some vast knowledge of the universe, I'm only 16..well almost 17, & I'm on the same field as you, I just happen to be on the other side, and looking back, I wish I was still over there with you.

In the end, it's all up to you, but one way or another it will happen and if things don't happen perfectly, don't beat yourself up over it, it happens to us all...it's part of growing up, and growing up emotionally.

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Statistik   Is it wrong to be a virgin in high school?   Mar 12 2007, 07:53 PM
cup noodles   uh, no. actually, saving yourself for marriage is...   Mar 12 2007, 07:54 PM
momo way   QUOTE(cup noodles @ Mar 12 2007, 7:54 PM)...   Mar 16 2007, 05:15 PM
suddenly she   QUOTE(momo way @ Mar 16 2007, 6:15 PM) th...   Mar 18 2007, 06:42 PM
Stefanny   Stay a virgin your whole life. I'm sure you...   Mar 12 2007, 07:55 PM
niciDOOM   uh thats a dumb question... of course its not........   Mar 12 2007, 07:57 PM
Statistik   QUOTE(niciDOOM @ Mar 12 2007, 7:57 PM) u...   Mar 12 2007, 08:04 PM
WHIMSICAL 0NE   No, it's a not bad thing. I think it's goo...   Mar 12 2007, 08:03 PM
Stefanny   So what if they lost their virginity during high s...   Mar 12 2007, 08:08 PM
KissMe2408   No, it's def not wrong. I really admire guys t...   Mar 12 2007, 08:42 PM
ooberSANDRA   i think that age shouldn't have anything to do...   Nov 4 2007, 12:30 PM
Obscure Enigma   Noooo. Please don't give up your virginity bec...   Mar 12 2007, 08:44 PM
Wo0yaPo0ya   No, not at all. Don't think that you need to l...   Mar 12 2007, 09:02 PM
Ma Ass is WOW   Nah, mang.   Mar 12 2007, 09:04 PM
Stefanny   QUOTE(Ma Ass is WOW @ Mar 12 2007, 6:04 P...   Mar 12 2007, 11:06 PM
Ma Ass is WOW   QUOTE(Stefanny @ Mar 12 2007, 8:06 PM) Ye...   Mar 13 2007, 12:35 AM
ermfermoo   I think you're doomed. I lost my virginity whe...   Mar 12 2007, 09:10 PM
pureimaginationx23   QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Mar 12 2007, 09:10 PM) ...   Nov 11 2007, 04:01 PM
skillxz   QUOTE(Statistik @ Mar 12 2007, 7:53 PM) c...   Mar 12 2007, 09:11 PM
SimplicityGirl   Yes it's very very wrong to be a virgin in hig...   Mar 12 2007, 09:37 PM
My Cinderella.   There's nothing wrong with being a virgin. You...   Mar 12 2007, 10:27 PM
Rachel is love   Actually I don't think most freshman guys get ...   Mar 12 2007, 11:56 PM
Uronacid   I'm never sure if you're being a complete ...   Mar 13 2007, 12:03 AM
Stuckie   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Mar 13 2007, 12:03 AM) I...   Mar 13 2007, 04:43 AM
femme_fatale4160   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Mar 13 2007, 1:03 AM) I...   Mar 13 2007, 02:36 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(femme_fatale4160 @ Mar 13 2007, 3:3...   Mar 13 2007, 04:07 PM
JakeKKing   Yes, there is something wrong with that. You shoul...   Mar 13 2007, 12:44 AM
Monochrome.   HAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA Kid,what are you 14/15?...   Mar 13 2007, 04:13 AM
little meg sunshine   Contrary to popular belief, being a virgin in high...   Mar 13 2007, 09:21 AM
KCreateBlog   QUOTE(little meg sunshine @ Mar 13 2007, 9...   Mar 13 2007, 01:00 PM
mishyerr   I'm sure a lot of people in high-school lose i...   Mar 13 2007, 02:04 PM
camcha   What kind of freshmans went to your high school? G...   Mar 13 2007, 02:08 PM
lol lollipops   YES, YOU ARE GOING TO DIE & GO TO HELL.   Mar 13 2007, 05:18 PM
designingskils   I dont think so.   Mar 13 2007, 06:15 PM
catastrophic   Of course it's not wrong. You should make your...   Mar 13 2007, 11:25 PM
Uronacid   Billy Madison: Of course I peed my pants, everyone...   Mar 13 2007, 11:30 PM
Monochrome.   QUOTE(Uronacid @ Mar 14 2007, 4:30 AM) Bi...   Mar 15 2007, 04:48 AM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Monochrome. @ Mar 15 2007, 4:48 AM)...   Mar 17 2007, 01:15 AM
priyas   I bet some of them are lying. Some are serious. ...   Mar 14 2007, 12:24 AM
eboarder2020   Man all my friends had sex in high school. Im the ...   Mar 14 2007, 01:36 AM
xFaith   No not at all. if you wait till you find the righ...   Mar 14 2007, 03:37 AM
just_rissa   Of course not!   Mar 14 2007, 05:21 AM
xPartyGrlDx   It ultimately depnds on your morals. For me, I...   Mar 14 2007, 10:14 PM
cory john   I think its totally okay. I am actually applaud it...   Mar 15 2007, 12:49 AM
Jinny   it's NOT a bad thing! even though you migh...   Mar 15 2007, 05:44 PM
lilxl0ser   lol no i didn't think it was. :/   Mar 16 2007, 09:40 PM
eyecandyy   Why in the World would being a virgin be wrong? I ...   Mar 24 2007, 01:14 AM
ifonlyyouknew.   Nope. Its normal.   Mar 24 2007, 06:27 AM
.Distroyed.   i think you should just wait untill your ready   Apr 4 2007, 07:48 AM
jeanna   it's not wrong but hella rare   Nov 1 2007, 12:01 PM
Trinity54   There is nothing wrong with being a virgin share y...   Nov 1 2007, 12:12 PM
na-nancy   NO!! aint nothing wrong with that!...   Nov 1 2007, 09:43 PM
BLAZINASIAN   What in the world can be wrong with that? If every...   Nov 1 2007, 10:14 PM
Steven   QUOTE(BLAZINASIAN @ Nov 1 2007, 10:14 PM)...   Nov 1 2007, 11:13 PM
BLAZINASIAN   Touche.   Nov 3 2007, 12:33 AM
littleswallow   There is absolutely nothing wrong with being a vir...   Nov 3 2007, 06:50 AM
Castaway   i'm waiting for the right girl, hopefully the ...   Nov 4 2007, 02:19 AM
xFaith   Definately not wrong. Actually, it's a plus ...   Nov 4 2007, 01:10 PM
sourire   Aw. You're quite the impressionable one aren...   Nov 4 2007, 03:05 PM
RCKstarh   i dont think its wrong if u wanna save it for marr...   Nov 4 2007, 03:15 PM
SLACK3R   No not at all. I'm a freshman and I find it co...   Nov 4 2007, 03:31 PM
itsnever4ever   no, you should never be pressured into "doing...   Nov 5 2007, 12:05 AM
barbieeedollxo   no its not.   Nov 8 2007, 01:56 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   No, its not a bad thing but its also not very comm...   Nov 10 2007, 06:50 PM
Insurmountable   I don't think theres is anything wrong in bein...   Nov 11 2007, 01:45 AM
Uronacid   I was a virgin in high school. I had plenty of cha...   Nov 11 2007, 09:51 AM
iinstantGLAM   Nothing's wrong with that. In my school lots o...   Nov 11 2007, 12:21 PM
RyanWasHere   It can go one of two ways, if you lose your virgin...   Nov 11 2007, 01:24 PM
aestheticYOU   No. There is no right and wrong. Don't feel pr...   Nov 11 2007, 04:42 PM
omgomgKATHY   I remember krnprydeee.. *laughs* good timees. and...   Nov 11 2007, 05:37 PM
GEEZYBABY   It's not wrong at all..   Nov 11 2007, 05:40 PM
doiink   only for you it is. YOU FAIL   Nov 11 2007, 05:41 PM
CowerPointyObjects   I'm a virgin in college. Whatever. I'm not...   Nov 11 2007, 06:01 PM
vehvih   Advice to virgins out here: GET EDUCATED ABOUT SE...   Nov 11 2007, 06:05 PM
icecreamisyummy   youll have more kids in you wait until marriage......   Nov 15 2007, 04:13 PM
Sulfur-in-K   Not wrong but may be shunned upon by some people.   Nov 15 2007, 05:57 PM


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