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she slept with him
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post Nov 3 2007, 08:32 PM
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a "good friend" of mine slept with a guy i liked even if i told her to not to do anything with him because she has a background of that.
she has worked in truck stations, corners, you name it. (no i'm not joking)
she is a year younger than me (18) and lives a bad life. she moved out to las vegas and sometimes comes back here.
thing is, i'm still mad as hell that she did sleep with him and betrayed my trust. she im's me about once a week even though i don't respond.
i'm over that guy but not the fact she did that stuff.
should i forgive her?
 
 
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post Nov 4 2007, 05:46 PM
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Don’t judge your good friend by her sweet little attitude. Girls are dramatic. They can act nice, but does ridiculous things behind people's back.

How can you forgive her? She doesn’t care about your crush. She doesn’t even respect your decision. She simply cares less about your thing. She doesn’t even think about you're in pain and anger. She has no heart for you... but act “nice” to you, girl.

What can you do now? You’re just going to forgive her whatever she does to you? If she slaps you, you're going to forgive her? if she sleeps some more guys you like, you'll forgive her? If she takes your money and lie to you, you'll forgive her? Think about it. She’s going against your value, trust, and personality. You’re a weak person. How are you going to live your OWN life when she's always around digging your opportunity?

You’re going to be independent women. You need to grow up, and trash that bitch. You don’t need people who put you down. You need people that respect you and don’t put you down. Live your life, be smart, and don’t take wrongful shit from others. You know much better than that.

 
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post Nov 11 2007, 07:20 AM
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QUOTE(Fist @ Nov 4 2007, 05:46 PM) *
Don’t judge your good friend by her sweet little attitude. Girls are dramatic. They can act nice, but does ridiculous things behind people's back.

How can you forgive her? She doesn’t care about your crush. She doesn’t even respect your decision. She simply cares less about your thing. She doesn’t even think about you're in pain and anger. She has no heart for you... but act “nice” to you, girl.

What can you do now? You’re just going to forgive her whatever she does to you? If she slaps you, you're going to forgive her? if she sleeps some more guys you like, you'll forgive her? If she takes your money and lie to you, you'll forgive her? Think about it. She’s going against your value, trust, and personality. You’re a weak person. How are you going to live your OWN life when she's always around digging your opportunity?

You’re going to be independent women. You need to grow up, and trash that bitch. You don’t need people who put you down. You need people that respect you and don’t put you down. Live your life, be smart, and don’t take wrongful shit from others. You know much better than that.


i had once a best friend go after my man and, she acted like nothing when she took him. than i'm souppoused to be happy go lucky and still be friends with her like nothing ohh hell to the naw. it's like everything i want or have she wants and always goes after it. i know she's jealous of me, and even if she has to lie and scheme to use people to get me jealous she does it. now it's like she's even trying to be me whatever it's so funny i dont let herphaze me anymore. i cut all ties after the fact. than i tried to do the friends thing once in a blue moon but it pained me so much to even be around her. and she always go out her way to parade herself to hurt me. friends like that ain't true or real friends if you always have to watch your back 24/7 and look over your shoulders thinking what they going to do to hurt you next i learned my lesson. she still im's me and i never answer. now i just blocked her and everyone else tied to her. after she took my man and was done with him she going act like we still cool, things ain't the same and they aint ever going to be. she needa realize that she just a skanky hoe that uses sex and lies to get what she want and she'd never be better than me. cause i never stoop so damn low to do shit like that and im a true friend.
 

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jeanna   she slept with him   Nov 3 2007, 08:32 PM
RAWRstephishere   If you put good friend in quotes, I think you know...   Nov 3 2007, 08:40 PM
jeanna   QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ Nov 3 2007, 08:40...   Nov 3 2007, 08:41 PM
RAWRstephishere   QUOTE(jeanna @ Nov 3 2007, 08:41 PM) she...   Nov 3 2007, 09:04 PM
RockItStudios   dump her on her skanky ass.   Nov 3 2007, 09:02 PM
Relentless   A true friend would never do that whatsoever.   Nov 3 2007, 09:10 PM
jeanna   QUOTE(Relentless @ Nov 3 2007, 09:10 PM) ...   Nov 3 2007, 09:36 PM
RockItStudios   i repeat: dump her on her skanky ass. it...   Nov 3 2007, 10:12 PM
Call911Quick   I don't think you should lose her just because...   Nov 4 2007, 05:14 AM
lidoxeddie   QUOTE(jeanna @ Nov 3 2007, 08:32 PM) a ...   Nov 4 2007, 05:17 AM
jeanna   QUOTE(lidoxeddie @ Nov 4 2007, 06:17 AM) ...   Nov 4 2007, 11:56 AM
Uronacid   Like the majority said, just forgive her and keep ...   Nov 11 2007, 09:39 AM
MissFits   Ignore him. Ditch that Bitch. Has she even apolo...   Nov 4 2007, 11:43 AM
S-Majere   So her redeeming feature is that she's "n...   Nov 4 2007, 11:48 AM
MissFits   I meant Eddie. But, I am glad you are ignoring th...   Nov 4 2007, 12:06 PM
xFaith   If my friend did that to me, especially one of my ...   Nov 4 2007, 02:21 PM
Fist   Don’t judge your good friend by her sweet little a...   Nov 4 2007, 05:46 PM
jeanna   QUOTE(Fist @ Nov 4 2007, 06:46 PM) Don’t ...   Nov 6 2007, 01:06 PM
lovestoned   QUOTE(Fist @ Nov 4 2007, 05:46 PM) Don’t ...   Nov 11 2007, 07:20 AM
itsnever4ever   a true friend would have respected your feelings, ...   Nov 5 2007, 12:11 AM
krnxswat   poopoo in her orange juice when she isn't look...   Nov 6 2007, 01:47 AM
Elba   I honestly don't think you even had a right to...   Nov 6 2007, 02:15 AM
aestheticYOU   QUOTE(Elba @ Nov 6 2007, 01:15 AM) I hone...   Nov 11 2007, 12:09 PM
Uronacid   I don't know... that's wicked lame. Like E...   Nov 6 2007, 10:02 AM
Sandraaa   I think you should forgive her but make a distance...   Nov 6 2007, 10:05 AM
IVIike   yeah don't waste your time with her   Nov 6 2007, 10:26 AM
oXMuhNirvanaXo   I would shank her in the back.. and cut off his pe...   Nov 11 2007, 08:24 AM


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