Would you get into a relationship, With a soldier going to Iraq?? Options

[*icecreamisyummy*]

So this guy ive been talking to has asked me to be his gf twice now. the first time i said no, because i hadn't seen him in a while. Now he jsut found out he'll be sent back to Iraq in about 2 weeks and asked to be my bf again...but in much serious terms. I really do like him and he really likes me. My best friend is against it and doesnt want me doing it because of the emotional impact it will cause.

now the other problem is, i just got otu of a serious relationship about a month or so ago. me and my ex still hang out* and what not. we both love one another, but we've had our issues and he said theres no chance between us now after what happened this past weekend. in a way i wanna believe him, but idk if he's being serious or not... i mean, he keeps showing up at my house he keeps calling.

so do i get into a relationship with someone who will be able to give me everythign and treat me how i should be treated, after he gets bck from iraq, or do i just sit around waiting for the guy i love to come to his senses?

of course theres more to all this but i dont want to bore you guys.

[Insurmountable]

Wow..

I really don't know what to say to you, to be really honest. Your one of those people I can't stand because your sitting back playing with others feelings, and I personally can't stand it happening to me so why the hell would I ever do that to someone else? And I'm pretty sure you wouldn't to have your feelings played with either.

Its like you just completely gave the other two guys the shaft and pretty labeled a big f**k you I'm going to this skater guy now.

From what I know and that you've told us I feel bad for the soldier guy Not so much the ex because I mean hes already flat out told you things weren't going to work between you guys so I would have moved on and not looked back.

[*icecreamisyummy*]

Wow..

I really don't know what to say to you, to be really honest. Your one of those people I can't stand because your sitting back playing with others feelings, and I personally can't stand it happening to me so why the hell would I ever do that to someone else? And I'm pretty sure you wouldn't to have your feelings played with either.

Its like you just completely gave the other two guys the shaft and pretty labeled a big f**k you I'm going to this skater guy now.

From what I know and that you've told us I feel bad for the soldier guy Not so much the ex because I mean hes already flat out told you things weren't going to work between you guys so I would have moved on and not looked back.

actually i dont play with guys feelings. They all know about the situation with my ex. the soldier, he asked me out tuesday, told me to give him my answer the next day, i was gonna say yes, but i calle dhim, he didnt answer, he hasnt called me. i know he was suppose to go see his family over the weekend, and i can understand why he wouldnt call me during the weekend, but what happened with wednesday and thursday. i mean if it was that important to him, why havent i heard from him.

the soldier has known about my ex, andhe decided to put his self in this position. he's the one that started getting feelings for me.

my ex has been playing with my feelings

the skater, well we're just friends, right now, we're jsut attracted to each other but nothing big... not like im aiming for a relationship with him, no way lol