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Need a girl's advice, Awkward silences
tokyoanime
post Nov 1 2007, 04:29 PM
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So...I need a girl's or a boy's advice.So I like this girl but then whenever I talk to her either it be phone,aim,real life there would always be awkward silences through the conversation.I try to end it by saying how was your day or what are you doing.But those 2 are basically all I have to end silences.Anyone have any ideas how to end these silences?Like any topics I could bring up to talk about etc. I'd appreciate the help laugh.gif
 
 
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karmakiller
post Nov 2 2007, 09:47 PM
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Just say something random. That's what I do. But I am slightly weird and stuff.

Like the next time there's a silence just be like "Yup... those hippies..."

Hm, maybe that's why I'm not successful with people. lol.
 
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post Nov 6 2007, 07:44 AM
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QUOTE(karmakiller @ Nov 3 2007, 03:47 AM) *
Just say something random. That's what I do. But I am slightly weird and stuff.

Like the next time there's a silence just be like "Yup... those hippies..."


Ha ha:P
A friend of mine says "Huh, the Autumn came early" when it get silence.

I just write "jaja, nei nei... Neida saa..." which is something like "Yeah yeah, no no... alright then..." or "yeah yeah, no no... but, you see...".
'Neida saa' starts another conversation about something totally different most of the times. It's like "hey, let's talk about something else ;)" LOL!

Or I just say "Wow, this was awkward..."
 

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tokyoanime   Need a girl's advice   Nov 1 2007, 04:29 PM
SLACK3R   Play 21 questions?   Nov 1 2007, 05:08 PM
jeanna   QUOTE(SLACK3R @ Nov 1 2007, 06:08 PM) Pla...   Nov 6 2007, 01:42 PM
S-Majere   This is always something that happens; and it will...   Nov 2 2007, 10:16 AM
tokyoanime   Ok I guess I'll try some of your advices thank...   Nov 2 2007, 05:03 PM
aestheticYOU   Well, if there are awkward silences, chances are s...   Nov 2 2007, 05:06 PM
alovesopure   When people stop talking to me or if there are awk...   Nov 2 2007, 05:09 PM
Call911Quick   QUOTE(alovesopure @ Nov 2 2007, 05:09 PM)...   Nov 6 2007, 06:57 AM
alovesopure   QUOTE(Call911Quick @ Nov 6 2007, 06:57 AM...   Nov 6 2007, 02:52 PM
omgomgKATHY   I second 21 questions! gahh thats why i hate ...   Nov 2 2007, 06:47 PM
karmakiller   Just say something random. That's what I do. B...   Nov 2 2007, 09:47 PM
shiruji   QUOTE(karmakiller @ Nov 3 2007, 03:47 AM)...   Nov 6 2007, 07:44 AM
tokyoanime   Haha.Well of course I'm random and you know...   Nov 2 2007, 11:00 PM
Joss-eh-lime   it takes a while to become comfortable with silenc...   Nov 2 2007, 11:15 PM
rorhinna   oh man, I hate it when there's awkward silence...   Nov 4 2007, 12:51 AM
rebeccalovely   It's kind of hard to avoid the awkward silence...   Nov 4 2007, 12:59 AM
tokyoanime   Hm..I'm trying to communicate with her more in...   Nov 4 2007, 09:35 PM
sourire   Ah, I kind of don't quite think before I speak...   Nov 4 2007, 10:07 PM
xFaith   ^ Hahaha xD That does not work in real life =P J...   Nov 6 2007, 07:18 AM
ihavenoname706   QUOTE(tokyoanime @ Nov 1 2007, 04:29 PM) ...   Nov 6 2007, 05:40 PM
-p0oki3-   i agree with just asking random questions. anythin...   Nov 6 2007, 05:52 PM
gr00vyswordsman   Okay, to develop a real connection you must lead t...   Nov 12 2007, 12:08 AM
nguoicasison   1   Nov 12 2007, 12:46 AM
doiink   QUOTESunrise or sunset? LOL I ALWAYS USE THAT...   Nov 12 2007, 12:50 AM


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