Growing apart, Longterm relationships getting... boring |
 Oct 28 2007, 09:51 AM
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Have you ever had a long term relationship, and suddenly felt like you were growing apart?
Because i am having this right now. And I know it's normal, but it just feels so boring all the time. We've been doing lots of different stuff together but still.. It's just not how it once was. Im starting to notice too that other guys are interested in me too. Dont get me wrong, i wouldn't cheat, but I do love the attention. Not that my boyfriend not gives me enough attention, because he does. I would really appreciate to put down what you have done if this has happened to you, or what you think i should do. =) |
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Nov 2 2007, 03:19 PM
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Christina (Just_Dream) has great advice, and has the experience to back it up. Daang.
 But I agree with her, you have to rethink why you're in the relationship and how much you care about him. I was with one ex for almost 2 years but it ended up dying off, but at the beginning of the relationship I never thought I would end it, but I did. I was getting bored and then when I thought about it I just realized I didn't feel that way towards him anymore, but I didn't randomly decide this on a whim...it took plenty of thought. So just be sure to be careful and think about it. Don't stay in the relationshipfor the sake of it and the length of time, but don't break up over this so quickly either. |
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xFaith Growing apart Oct 28 2007, 09:51 AM
shadowcat Im in a long term relationship and Also feeling th... Oct 28 2007, 01:40 PM eboarder2020 There is a point in a relationship where you'r... Oct 29 2007, 03:03 AM S-Majere I'm also in a long term relationship. It's... Oct 29 2007, 01:14 PM Just_Dream It also depends on the circumstances of the relati... Oct 29 2007, 02:36 PM xFaith I'm going to talk to him about it this afterno... Oct 31 2007, 06:28 AM Trinity54 I had an long term relationship myself and sadly i... Oct 31 2007, 01:49 PM jeanna 9 months was my cut off, which is bad but i was on... Nov 2 2007, 12:24 PM barbieeedollxo i was with this one guy for 2 yrs..and we tried ha... Nov 2 2007, 12:49 PM xFaith I broke it off... It was a really hard thing to do... Nov 2 2007, 12:52 PM
false ^ A bit late, but still a good advice. Think about... Nov 2 2007, 07:47 PM |
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