Need a girl's advice, Awkward silences |
 Nov 1 2007, 04:29 PM
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So...I need a girl's or a boy's advice.So I like this girl but then whenever I talk to her either it be phone,aim,real life there would always be awkward silences through the conversation.I try to end it by saying how was your day or what are you doing.But those 2 are basically all I have to end silences.Anyone have any ideas how to end these silences?Like any topics I could bring up to talk about etc. I'd appreciate the help
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Nov 2 2007, 10:16 AM
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This is always something that happens; and it will get easier to talk to someone after a few weeks of general chitchat.
Remember to ask your girl more open ended questions, so instead of 'what time did you finish today?' ask her 'How did you find today?'. Pay attention to anything that the both of you like and steer the conversation toward a mutual interest. Odds are, you'll both have plenty to say. The same goes for when you inquire about her personal hobbies or interests; get her to talk to you about them and she'll open up more. Good luck! |
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tokyoanime Need a girl's advice Nov 1 2007, 04:29 PM
SLACK3R Play 21 questions? Nov 1 2007, 05:08 PM
jeanna QUOTE(SLACK3R @ Nov 1 2007, 06:08 PM) Pla... Nov 6 2007, 01:42 PM tokyoanime Ok I guess I'll try some of your advices thank... Nov 2 2007, 05:03 PM aestheticYOU Well, if there are awkward silences, chances are s... Nov 2 2007, 05:06 PM alovesopure When people stop talking to me or if there are awk... Nov 2 2007, 05:09 PM Call911Quick QUOTE(alovesopure @ Nov 2 2007, 05:09 PM)... Nov 6 2007, 06:57 AM alovesopure QUOTE(Call911Quick @ Nov 6 2007, 06:57 AM... Nov 6 2007, 02:52 PM omgomgKATHY I second 21 questions!
gahh thats why i hate ... Nov 2 2007, 06:47 PM karmakiller Just say something random. That's what I do. B... Nov 2 2007, 09:47 PM shiruji QUOTE(karmakiller @ Nov 3 2007, 03:47 AM)... Nov 6 2007, 07:44 AM tokyoanime Haha.Well of course I'm random and you know... Nov 2 2007, 11:00 PM Joss-eh-lime it takes a while to become comfortable with silenc... Nov 2 2007, 11:15 PM rorhinna oh man, I hate it when there's awkward silence... Nov 4 2007, 12:51 AM rebeccalovely It's kind of hard to avoid the awkward silence... Nov 4 2007, 12:59 AM tokyoanime Hm..I'm trying to communicate with her more in... Nov 4 2007, 09:35 PM sourire Ah, I kind of don't quite think before I speak... Nov 4 2007, 10:07 PM xFaith ^ Hahaha xD That does not work in real life =P
J... Nov 6 2007, 07:18 AM ihavenoname706 QUOTE(tokyoanime @ Nov 1 2007, 04:29 PM) ... Nov 6 2007, 05:40 PM -p0oki3- i agree with just asking random questions.
anythin... Nov 6 2007, 05:52 PM gr00vyswordsman Okay, to develop a real connection you must lead t... Nov 12 2007, 12:08 AM nguoicasison 1 Nov 12 2007, 12:46 AM doiink QUOTESunrise or sunset?
LOL I ALWAYS USE THAT... Nov 12 2007, 12:50 AM |
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