Being sucessful Options

[demolished]

__________________________________You versus People

If your wrap your heart tightly, you'll preserve less memories.
And, you'll less likely have to deal with a bond between 2 people regardless of any relationship such as friends, couples, or anybody. In other word, don't open your heart, just harden it. And, you'll suffer less.

That's a formula to personal academic success.
It can turn people to be sucessful in their studies such as doing well in high school.

If you let yourself loosely, open yourself up
You're vulnerable to get hurt
You're easily distracted by bond between you and the person.

At the same time, your pride crippled, isn't it true? You start to fail work … and slowly weakened.


what are your thoughts about this philosophy?

[demolished]

emo train? HAHA. no, trish !

Generally, students who are very intelligent and does well in school lacks communication. They avoided people; usually don’t have a well-rounded/down-to-earth personality.

These people totally focus on their work, getting what they wanted, and avoiding others at the same time. They don’t connect with others. Yes, they do give attitude if they're helping others on homework who aren’t as smart as them.

Does that make them selfish? All they care is about themselves by getting their own things done, not showing some generosity or gratitude.

… or, that’s not selfish because they choose not to talk to others?

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moderator, good point. i never realize that.

[dustbunny]

emo train? HAHA. no, trish !

Generally, students who are very intelligent and does well in school lacks communication. They avoided people; usually don’t have a well-rounded/down-to-earth personality.

These people totally focus on their work, getting what they wanted, and avoiding others at the same time. They don’t connect with others. Yes, they do give attitude if they're helping others on homework who aren’t as smart as them.

being successful does not solely center around academics. who cares if you graduated from Harvard cum laude if you cannot interact with other human beings? people skills are just as vital if not MORE vital than academic skills. if you can't deal with co-workers or cannot handle your boss, then you're fired. and that's that.

y definition of "success" is a person who works hard, get high grades, and manage everything well. Yes, they are normal people.

I understand this is your definition, but you might want to reevaluate your perception on "success". If i flunked out of all my classes in high school but started a company that flourished in a brief amount of time, would you consider me unsuccessful because I didn't get "high grades?"