Are you ashamed of being a virgin?, ?? |
 Oct 23 2007, 01:04 PM
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If you are or were ever ashamed of saying that you are a virgin?
Is it different for guys to admit that they are or the other way around?  I am a virgin and my boyfriend isn't and is alright with it. |
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Oct 23 2007, 09:03 PM
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I'm proud to be one. So many people lose theirs to people who just come and go in their life. I'm waiting until marriage, it's the best gift you can give to your new spouse.
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Oct 24 2007, 01:11 AM
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when i was, i wasn't. i didn't really care, though. i used to be all OOH ABSTINECE except it was pretty much.. a bunch of spoon-fed shit from sunday school. i didn't really believe it; it was just what i was taught to repeat.
now, it's just a don't ask don't tell. i'm not gonna lie to someone, but if he or she has an issue with me not being a virgin, he/she can shove it up his/her ass.  i think the whole "it's the best thing you can give to your husband/wife" thing is... just dumb, really. "hey, it's my first time, congrats you just took my virginity!" is bizarre to me. to me, the best thing you can give your partner is, "i love you more than anything, anyone, everything, and everyone in the world... combined." - maybe losing your virginity to someone earlier was a mistake, but we're human. mistakes happen, and you can get over them and make up for them. nothing complicated. |
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Oct 24 2007, 12:47 PM
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QUOTE(revoltaire @ Oct 24 2007, 02:11 AM)  when i was, i wasn't. i didn't really care, though. i used to be all OOH ABSTINECE except it was pretty much.. a bunch of spoon-fed shit from sunday school. i didn't really believe it; it was just what i was taught to repeat. now, it's just a don't ask don't tell. i'm not gonna lie to someone, but if he or she has an issue with me not being a virgin, he/she can shove it up his/her ass. i think the whole "it's the best thing you can give to your husband/wife" thing is... just dumb, really. "hey, it's my first time, congrats you just took my virginity!" is bizarre to me. to me, the best thing you can give your partner is, "i love you more than anything, anyone, everything, and everyone in the world... combined." - maybe losing your virginity to someone earlier was a mistake, but we're human. mistakes happen, and you can get over them and make up for them. nothing complicated. You're just f ucking retarded. You're just all indifferent and apathetic and "OH-ITS-NO'BIG-'DEAL-" attitude about it because you've lost it. Face it, that's the truth. You probably would want it back if you can. |
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Oct 25 2007, 11:32 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 24 2007, 01:47 PM) You're just f ucking retarded. You're just all indifferent and apathetic and "OH-ITS-NO'BIG-'DEAL-" attitude about it because you've lost it. Face it, that's the truth. You probably would want it back if you can. face what? i lost my virginity, but it's not going to bring tears to my eyes every time i think of it. i'm not being all indifferent and apathetic - i think you just assumed that because you can't tell what sort of tone i'm using when i type. i'm saying that people make mistakes, and you can't change the past... but it doesn't mean that you have to mentally thrash yourself every time it comes to mind. you can, however, commit yourself to change. |
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Oct 29 2007, 01:30 PM
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QUOTE(revoltaire @ Oct 25 2007, 11:32 PM) i'm saying that people make mistakes, and you can't change the past... but it doesn't mean that you have to mentally thrash yourself every time it comes to mind. you can, however, commit yourself to change. If I did that; a mental thrashing is the least of what I'd give myself... |
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stolen Are you ashamed of being a virgin? Oct 23 2007, 01:04 PM
alovesopure Nah, I don't care. Oct 23 2007, 01:59 PM MissFits When I was a virgin, I was proud of it.
It is not... Oct 23 2007, 02:09 PM KawaiiLove Like said above, nothing to be ashamed of.
I... Oct 23 2007, 02:14 PM xtwitchyx When I was a virgin, I was always proud of it. Esp... Oct 23 2007, 02:45 PM S-Majere I'm very proud to be a virgin. Going on 20 yea... Oct 23 2007, 03:40 PM
AngryBaby QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 23 2007, 03:40 ... Oct 29 2007, 12:51 AM jeanna when i was a virgin i wasn't. now i want it ba... Oct 23 2007, 03:43 PM clarity no... to be honest I don't see why its such a ... Oct 23 2007, 03:48 PM S-Majere Each to their own I guess, clarity.
For me, it r... Oct 23 2007, 04:01 PM krnxswat I'm still a virgin, and I'm proud of it; I... Oct 23 2007, 04:28 PM false QUOTE(krnxswat @ Oct 23 2007, 02:28 PM) I... Oct 23 2007, 07:39 PM angelrevelation I am proud to be one. I'm waiting till marria... Oct 23 2007, 06:23 PM RAWRstephishere I dont get why being a virgin wouldnt be something... Oct 23 2007, 07:17 PM brooklyneast05 QUOTE(RAWRstephishere @ Oct 23 2007, 07:1... Oct 23 2007, 07:29 PM krnxswat QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Oct 23 2007, 08:29... Oct 24 2007, 01:08 AM jeanna QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Oct 23 2007, 07:29... Oct 31 2007, 02:12 AM Sulfur-in-K When I was, no. Oct 23 2007, 07:32 PM Bishinobi When I was, I didnt care.
If I still was now, I th... Oct 23 2007, 07:37 PM fall3n_s0ul I hate being a virgin, especially knowing I could... Oct 23 2007, 10:51 PM Insurmountable Nah I never really cared. Except once o_O I mean i... Oct 24 2007, 12:10 AM tungmyBANANA I was once a virgin. 3 years ago. I was never prou... Oct 24 2007, 12:11 AM Relentless I didn't mind being a virgin. I still am. If p... Oct 24 2007, 12:59 AM VaeVictis No, I'm not.
I think its disgusting for peopl... Oct 24 2007, 07:26 AM Synesthesia I'm not ashamed of being a virgin. It just mea... Oct 24 2007, 11:50 AM barbieeedollxo well when i was still a virgin i wasn't ashame... Oct 24 2007, 12:49 PM littleswallow Back when I still was, I wasn't ashamed of it ... Oct 25 2007, 05:04 AM Sandraaa I wasn't ashamed. I didn't just brag about... Oct 25 2007, 03:25 PM xhidethedetails When I was one I wasnt ashamed really.
When people... Oct 25 2007, 03:49 PM rorhinna I'm a virgin, proud of it,
and wait'n till... Oct 25 2007, 11:16 PM TaintedSakura I'm not ashamed of being a virgin.
I'm ash... Oct 26 2007, 07:02 PM lidoxeddie I was ashamed when I was. Somewhat.
Here and ther... Oct 29 2007, 02:32 AM Amechi virgins unite! we will cleanse the world of a... Oct 29 2007, 05:00 AM SimplicityGirl I am...as of now.
But I'm going to lose it to ... Oct 31 2007, 01:15 AM krnxswat QUOTE(SimplicityGirl @ Oct 31 2007, 02:15... Oct 31 2007, 01:17 AM accessdenied Never was. And never will be. Oct 31 2007, 07:10 PM |
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