Growing apart, Longterm relationships getting... boring |
 Oct 28 2007, 09:51 AM
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Have you ever had a long term relationship, and suddenly felt like you were growing apart?
Because i am having this right now. And I know it's normal, but it just feels so boring all the time. We've been doing lots of different stuff together but still.. It's just not how it once was. Im starting to notice too that other guys are interested in me too. Dont get me wrong, i wouldn't cheat, but I do love the attention. Not that my boyfriend not gives me enough attention, because he does. I would really appreciate to put down what you have done if this has happened to you, or what you think i should do. =) |
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Oct 29 2007, 01:14 PM
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I'm also in a long term relationship. It's going from strength to strength.
It does take some work; but I would never call keeping my love alive 'hard work'. There is said to be a certain point that couples reach; usually after two or three years of being together - when things to seem to lose their 'oomph' and the relationship becomes almost like a necessary chore. But I've yet to experience that. My advice to you is to keep things going. Arrange different things to do together and invest in quality time over the quantity of time you spend together. |
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xFaith Growing apart Oct 28 2007, 09:51 AM
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false ^ A bit late, but still a good advice. Think about... Nov 2 2007, 07:47 PM |
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