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barbieeedollxo
post Oct 18 2007, 12:55 PM
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my mom has always talked about how she hated me and i would never ammount to anything and all this crap. she has always made me feel like i was worthless and like i just needed to die...and things just always seem to keep getting worse..
and now because of her i rly have no self-esteem...
i hate myself and i guess its because she has put me down so much and it's all i've ever heard that after a while i just started believeing that it was true..
like when ever i date a guy i always feel like they shouldn't be with me and that they should be with someone better than me..
and i always feel like i don't deserve anything good...
any suggestions on how i can get better self-confidence?
and now a lil bit more about my mom....
she treats me like shit when we're not around ppl...
and then when we're in front of ppl i'm like an angel to her...
she so confusing
cause one min she hates me and wants me dead and the next she loves me and is bragging about me..
i'm almost 18 and she treats me like a 2 yr old.
any suggestions on what i can say or do to get it over to my mom that i won't take her shit any more?
 
 
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post Oct 19 2007, 11:28 AM
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How can she force you to quit? What the f**k?
 
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post Oct 19 2007, 11:34 AM
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QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 19 2007, 12:28 PM) *
How can she force you to quit? What the f**k?

cause she called up to my work while i was at school one day and told them that i was quitting. so yea i was so effing pissed. but i talked to my boss on myspace and so when i turn 18 i can come back up there and have my job back. cause everybody that i work with hates my mom.
 
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post Oct 25 2007, 10:57 AM
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QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Oct 19 2007, 11:34 AM) *
cause she called up to my work while i was at school one day and told them that i was quitting. so yea i was so effing pissed. but i talked to my boss on myspace and so when i turn 18 i can come back up there and have my job back. cause everybody that i work with hates my mom.

well it's good that is settled and other people know how your mom acts.
my mom would put on a mask around everyone and act like an angel. no one believed me when i would tell them things that happened. _unsure.gif
 
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post Oct 25 2007, 11:26 AM
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QUOTE(jeanna @ Oct 25 2007, 11:57 AM) *
well it's good that is settled and other people know how your mom acts.
my mom would put on a mask around everyone and act like an angel. no one believed me when i would tell them things that happened. _unsure.gif

yea thats how my mom is. and some ppl still don't believe me but others do cause they finally started catching on.
 

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barbieeedollxo   mom/self-esteem issues   Oct 18 2007, 12:55 PM
S-Majere   Firstly, I'm sorry that you're having to g...   Oct 18 2007, 01:03 PM
barbieeedollxo   QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 18 2007, 02:03 ...   Oct 18 2007, 01:09 PM
S-Majere   QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Oct 18 2007, 01:09...   Oct 18 2007, 01:56 PM
EtherxWhispers   Ignore her.And tell her that you'll make it wi...   Oct 18 2007, 01:28 PM
tungmyBANANA   I say take a poison pill and put it in her drink. ...   Oct 18 2007, 06:11 PM
Villainess   You are 18? Maybe its time for you to move in with...   Oct 18 2007, 06:19 PM
jeanna   i know exactly how you feel. my mom would try eve...   Oct 18 2007, 07:20 PM
mzkandi   I agree with some of what others have mentioned, i...   Oct 18 2007, 07:56 PM
Joss-eh-lime   damn, i thought my parents were annoying. yeah mo...   Oct 18 2007, 08:43 PM
barbieeedollxo   thanks you guys for all the advice. but i won...   Oct 19 2007, 11:26 AM
tungmyBANANA   How can she force you to quit? What the f**k?   Oct 19 2007, 11:28 AM
jeanna   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 19 2007, 11:28 A...   Oct 19 2007, 11:33 AM
barbieeedollxo   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 19 2007, 12:28 P...   Oct 19 2007, 11:34 AM
jeanna   QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Oct 19 2007, 11:34...   Oct 25 2007, 10:57 AM
barbieeedollxo   QUOTE(jeanna @ Oct 25 2007, 11:57 AM) wel...   Oct 25 2007, 11:26 AM
Kay-   I say start talking to her about it iff your not r...   Oct 19 2007, 02:41 PM
barbieeedollxo   yea my mom is just a total bitch. she tries to con...   Oct 19 2007, 10:37 PM
sugar_street   pretend you're just the best. you look beautif...   Oct 24 2007, 06:42 AM
barbieeedollxo   QUOTE(sugar_street @ Oct 24 2007, 07:42 A...   Oct 24 2007, 11:24 AM
tungmyBANANA   QUOTE(sugar_street @ Oct 24 2007, 04:42 A...   Oct 24 2007, 11:28 AM
barbieeedollxo   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 24 2007, 12:28 P...   Oct 24 2007, 11:31 AM
sugar_street   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 25 2007, 12:28 A...   Oct 25 2007, 05:46 AM
Steven   QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Oct 18 2007, 12:55...   Oct 25 2007, 12:10 PM


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