Am I Wrong?, ... Options

[vietbabiiix3]

Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now, and I definitely can trust him, 100%... So no questions that we both trust each other...

But I don't know. Today, we were just talking on phone, and then we got into random topics, and suddenly he mentioned this girl that USED and STILL does like him. And I don't know I felt uneasy, but I just listened to him... And he was like complimenting her... He said that he thinks she's HOT and she's PRETTY and that he thinks she sings perfectly and has the most "greatest voice he's ever heard." I felt so... LOW and down at that point. I didn't know what to say, because I didn't wanna spazz out on him. Inside of me really wanted to say "Why dont you just f_Cking go out with her then." And he's talked about her to me before. And everytime she comes up, he either says he likes the way she dresses or she's super nice or pretty... I don't know... Am I right to feel this way? .. Usualyl I would just shout at him.. but all I said today was "Oh? That's kool." I don't wanna be a bitch and get jealous over that, but I dont know. Do you think he was doing that just to upset me? And I know that if I hadn't come along, he would have gone out with her . I'm sure of that, he even told me that...

[yaamakoh]

i used to do that too with one of my ex's, but in actual reality i didn't know it was hurting her that much until she pointed it out.
women are more towards the feel side, where they experience everything as it goes, forgetting vivid images from their past lovers. they tend to live in the moment with their current boyfriend, only thinking and loving them. when they get married, and bear our children, they think of us as the father of their baby, becoming more psycologically attached.
men on the other hand, even though we don't like them, we think about them, everytime we kiss we have an image of our first kiss in our mind. every time we have sex, we think about the feeling about the first time we did it. men are more towards picture, capturing images in our minds without us thinking about it.
war veterans can never forget about war.
men can never truly forget about their first lovers, whether she was a bitch or not. we won't develop feelings for them anymore, just that their images are engraved into our mind. not our hearts, so keep that in mind.