don't know what to do.... Options

[barbieeedollxo]

ok so like i was dating this guy named joe who lives 2 hours away and i'm grounded right now so i couldn't go see him and he couldn't come see me...so like he cheated on me with this other girl that lives up there...but now he wants to get back together with me when i turn 18 in like 2 months so that way we'll be able to see each other and stuff like that and i don't know if i should forgive him or what cause he rly hurt me..but then again i think back to when i made a mistake and i got forgave and i got a second chance..so i mean i rly do like him alot and he was rly sweet to me i'm just confused and don't know excatly what i should do...should i forgive him and be with him in 2 months or do you think he's just playing games with me?

[yaamakoh]

don't give him a second chance. what's wrong with saving a little bit of money when you're 21?
#1, you don't pay for rent.
#2, homecooked meals.
plus, it's a good chance to save up for school again after you graduate college.
unless he's a bum that never went to college, or doesn't have a job... then thats a different story.
get rid of him, date around with other guys, play other guys, and get the feel for the game. and when you're ready to settle down again go ahead.
and getting a guy from the navy is tough, you'll probably see him every now and then during their breaks... which is like a week long, maybe three times a year? or more. i know marines is about 4 times a year at most, with summer break being the longest (which is one month).
there's plenty of fish in the sea... and don't just get a rod and grab one, get a fricking net and snatch all of them