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 Jun 17 2004, 05:01 AM
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 go sf giants!!  Group: Member Posts: 44 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,718  |
i dont want to sound like a total loser, but the truth is, ive never had a relationship with a guy. i really like this one dude, but i dont know how to approach him. im bad with 'flirting'. i dont know how to do it. anyone want to give me pointers? i want him to like me, not think im a weirdo or anything. please help!! thanks!
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Jun 17 2004, 01:05 PM
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 it's our chemistry Group: Member Posts: 1,151 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,775 |
It's fine to not have had relationships with guys before. Don't worry- that doesn't make you uncool. =] Actually, I gotta say, flirting won't help you here. Girls flirt all the time, and some are "better" than others. If you just flirt with him, you'll end up becoming another one of the crowd, undistiguishable to him. Instead try to get to know him first. The best conversation starter is simply, "*smile* hey, my name is..." Don't gab away, let him get some talking in, though. Guys like girls who are interested in what they're saying (and possibily themselves) so listen to him, smile, comment, and just let the conversation flow... Once you get to know him, you'll probably start to "flirt" naturally. It's simply how comfortable you are around him. And to be comfortable- be yourself! If he doesn't like you for who you are, he isn't worth your time. And if things don't work out romantically, hey, you've got yourself a new guyfriend, right? ^_^
Good luck, be yourself, and go for it! |
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inhibited_love confidence Jun 17 2004, 05:01 AM
inhibited_love how come no one ever replies to me? =[ please. i r... Jun 17 2004, 05:16 AM swtpumkinpie you could just tell him you like him. That way you... Jun 17 2004, 05:23 AM LiNHy POO well there is no way of *flirting*... try to talk ... Jun 17 2004, 11:59 AM Spirited Away How old are you? You think you're a loser beca... Jun 17 2004, 12:20 PM CrimsonArchangel Just bunch up some courage and go talk to him. Dun... Jun 17 2004, 12:23 PM rae Just talk to him or something.
B/c once you do...... Jun 17 2004, 12:31 PM CoLd_FlAmE QUOTE(rae @ Jun 17 2004, 12:31 PM)Just talk t... Jun 17 2004, 12:41 PM Yemmerz Get to know him first =] Always works. Jun 17 2004, 12:55 PM DoOdOox3 therez nothing* wrong with never had any relations... Jun 17 2004, 01:40 PM XDarkDestinyX Just be yourself because if he doesn't like yo... Jun 17 2004, 02:17 PM islandkiss when you're around him just try to stay calm a... Jun 17 2004, 03:43 PM sheepy mayb u could like get to noe him more so u guys be... Jul 7 2004, 07:50 PM Lady Nakuru Hey, no worries! I've never had a relation... Aug 5 2004, 11:54 PM teeners__15 hehe dont worry! i never had a relationship... Aug 6 2004, 12:05 AM conster just be who u are, u cant make him like u if u guy... Aug 6 2004, 12:09 AM CEP You know, you really don't need to flirt with ... Aug 6 2004, 12:23 AM DrEaMgUy2K1 strike a conversation with him,and then just go on... Aug 6 2004, 12:44 AM xxTiNEExx flirting isnt something really written in a book. ... Aug 6 2004, 04:30 AM xsweetdreams12x I've never had a boyfriend either, but I'm... Aug 6 2004, 11:45 AM kaleidoscoped Like others said, just be yourself.
Maybe start ta... Aug 6 2004, 12:06 PM
LiL_RiZZLe no point of flirting if ur gonna do it badly....bu... Aug 7 2004, 04:17 PM |
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