I have trouble socializing |
 Oct 5 2007, 11:24 PM
Post
#1
|
|
 Because i said so  Group: Member Posts: 19 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 84,144  |
I'm bad at conversations.
I'm usually quiet and envious of those who have a lot confidence and can easily talk to everyone. Well, i am always cautious of what i say, i never want to say the wrong things-yet, i think i still do. Also, I'm really really afraid of being alone with a person. I end up panicking, trying to figure out what to say or do. This is a problem because in the future, how will i talk to my (future)boyfriend? How will i make new friends? Usually, i make friends through connections of i have other people become friends with me. I'm very very shy. And when people say "be yourself" I'm just like, "How?" because I don't know the real me.'' Sounds really lame, but hey, it's my problem. |
|
|
|
 |
Replies
|
Oct 18 2007, 09:53 PM
Post
#2
|
|
 << >> Group: Member Posts: 579 Joined: Jan 2007 Member No: 495,827 |
The more you think about it, the harder it'll get. My advice: just let yourself go. Even if it's just for a moment. The more comfortable you seem talking to them, the more comfortable they will be talking to you too.
|
|
|
|
Posts in this topic
dododiva I have trouble socializing Oct 5 2007, 11:24 PM
synkro a lot of people are like you, and actually, i... Oct 5 2007, 11:41 PM sreymao ^ agreed.
i have to admit, i guess i'm like th... Oct 6 2007, 11:34 AM karmakiller I know exactly how you feel. I'm really awkwar... Oct 6 2007, 11:47 AM TaintedSakura Talk to people like you, The words just come... lo... Oct 6 2007, 12:52 PM jeanna im on pills for that.
haha.
you know who you are... Oct 18 2007, 09:19 PM moorepocket i have that problem. When i meet new people, i hav... Oct 18 2007, 09:35 PM S-Majere I had this problem too when I was a bit younger. I... Oct 19 2007, 04:29 AM yupimchuck i used to be so scared to talk to people.
and hon... Oct 20 2007, 10:51 PM Sandraaa Aww ... you're not alone in this world.
I... Oct 21 2007, 02:00 PM
S-Majere Can I just make mention of the complete motor-mout... Oct 22 2007, 12:18 PM |
1 User(s) are reading this topic (1 Guests and 0 Anonymous Users)
0 Members: