mom/self-esteem issues |
 Oct 18 2007, 12:55 PM
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 shboom =]  Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693  |
my mom has always talked about how she hated me and i would never ammount to anything and all this crap. she has always made me feel like i was worthless and like i just needed to die...and things just always seem to keep getting worse..
and now because of her i rly have no self-esteem... i hate myself and i guess its because she has put me down so much and it's all i've ever heard that after a while i just started believeing that it was true.. like when ever i date a guy i always feel like they shouldn't be with me and that they should be with someone better than me.. and i always feel like i don't deserve anything good... any suggestions on how i can get better self-confidence? and now a lil bit more about my mom.... she treats me like shit when we're not around ppl... and then when we're in front of ppl i'm like an angel to her... she so confusing cause one min she hates me and wants me dead and the next she loves me and is bragging about me.. i'm almost 18 and she treats me like a 2 yr old. any suggestions on what i can say or do to get it over to my mom that i won't take her shit any more? |
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Oct 18 2007, 07:56 PM
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 yes......and? Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 209 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,410 |
I agree with some of what others have mentioned, if you're able to move out I seriously suggest you do so. If you can't afford the means financially to move out on your own then perhaps try staying with a friend or another family member for a while, to get away from all the negativity.
Also, if you're still struggling to deal with low self esteem issues seeing a counselor to help you work through those problems may help. Best of luck to you. |
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barbieeedollxo mom/self-esteem issues Oct 18 2007, 12:55 PM
S-Majere Firstly, I'm sorry that you're having to g... Oct 18 2007, 01:03 PM
barbieeedollxo QUOTE(S-Majere @ Oct 18 2007, 02:03 ... Oct 18 2007, 01:09 PM S-Majere QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Oct 18 2007, 01:09... Oct 18 2007, 01:56 PM EtherxWhispers Ignore her.And tell her that you'll make it wi... Oct 18 2007, 01:28 PM tungmyBANANA I say take a poison pill and put it in her drink. ... Oct 18 2007, 06:11 PM Villainess You are 18?
Maybe its time for you to move in with... Oct 18 2007, 06:19 PM jeanna i know exactly how you feel.
my mom would try eve... Oct 18 2007, 07:20 PM Joss-eh-lime damn, i thought my parents were annoying.
yeah mo... Oct 18 2007, 08:43 PM barbieeedollxo thanks you guys for all the advice. but i won... Oct 19 2007, 11:26 AM tungmyBANANA How can she force you to quit? What the f**k? Oct 19 2007, 11:28 AM jeanna QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 19 2007, 11:28 A... Oct 19 2007, 11:33 AM barbieeedollxo QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 19 2007, 12:28 P... Oct 19 2007, 11:34 AM jeanna QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Oct 19 2007, 11:34... Oct 25 2007, 10:57 AM barbieeedollxo QUOTE(jeanna @ Oct 25 2007, 11:57 AM) wel... Oct 25 2007, 11:26 AM Kay- I say start talking to her about it iff your not r... Oct 19 2007, 02:41 PM barbieeedollxo yea my mom is just a total bitch. she tries to con... Oct 19 2007, 10:37 PM sugar_street pretend you're just the best. you look beautif... Oct 24 2007, 06:42 AM barbieeedollxo QUOTE(sugar_street @ Oct 24 2007, 07:42 A... Oct 24 2007, 11:24 AM tungmyBANANA QUOTE(sugar_street @ Oct 24 2007, 04:42 A... Oct 24 2007, 11:28 AM barbieeedollxo QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 24 2007, 12:28 P... Oct 24 2007, 11:31 AM sugar_street QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 25 2007, 12:28 A... Oct 25 2007, 05:46 AM Steven QUOTE(barbieeedollxo @ Oct 18 2007, 12:55... Oct 25 2007, 12:10 PM |
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