Am I Wrong?, ... |
 Oct 16 2007, 06:37 PM
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Well my boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now, and I definitely can trust him, 100%... So no questions that we both trust each other...
But I don't know. Today, we were just talking on phone, and then we got into random topics, and suddenly he mentioned this girl that USED and STILL does like him. And I don't know I felt uneasy, but I just listened to him... And he was like complimenting her... He said that he thinks she's HOT and she's PRETTY and that he thinks she sings perfectly and has the most "greatest voice he's ever heard." I felt so... LOW and down at that point. I didn't know what to say, because I didn't wanna spazz out on him. Inside of me really wanted to say "Why dont you just f_Cking go out with her then." And he's talked about her to me before. And everytime she comes up, he either says he likes the way she dresses or she's super nice or pretty... I don't know... Am I right to feel this way? .. Usualyl I would just shout at him.. but all I said today was "Oh? That's kool." I don't wanna be a bitch and get jealous over that, but I dont know. Do you think he was doing that just to upset me? And I know that if I hadn't come along, he would have gone out with her . I'm sure of that, he even told me that... |
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Oct 17 2007, 01:54 AM
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 Cornflakes :D Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,541 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 322,923 |
That's a little rude, but I mean you have every right to feel the way you do. So your not wrong
 To keep it civil and hopefully not form a lot of fights, just tell him on the phone next time he brings up here that you feel sad about it because you feel like he doesn't think your special in many different ways because hes complimenting someone else so much and to his own girlfriend. Don't yell at him about it, but be sincere and nice to him when telling him about it. Because if your mean to him and shout hes going to get mad and do the same to you, right? I really hope things turn out for the best Just remember to be nice to him about, because maybe he doesn't know thats how you feel about it? Its best to share your feelings no matter how bad they can possibly be. Communication and honesty is the best policy 
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vietbabiiix3 Am I Wrong? Oct 16 2007, 06:37 PM
babecakes you should be like "well, i think so-and-so i... Oct 16 2007, 06:59 PM
RAWRstephishere QUOTE(babecakes @ Oct 16 2007, 06:59 PM) ... Oct 17 2007, 08:44 PM
nosylilme You could either:
Talk to him about it. Tell him ... Oct 17 2007, 11:09 PM SpankMeHard wow what a dick... you should tell him how you fee... Oct 16 2007, 07:34 PM Moderator Wow, you're one of the few people I know whos ... Oct 16 2007, 07:50 PM katelynlingenfelter Worse Case: He wants in her pants, and you need to... Oct 16 2007, 09:07 PM Becks539 I'd be pissed. It's one thing to be like ... Oct 16 2007, 10:14 PM lilsnoopy QUOTEyou should be like "well, i think so-and... Oct 16 2007, 10:22 PM xtwitchyx If I were you... I think I would put his balls in ... Oct 17 2007, 09:03 AM Call911Quick I think you should dump this guy just because he... Oct 17 2007, 09:38 AM Insurmountable ^Sheesh I think thats really wrong to say, people ... Oct 17 2007, 01:24 PM S-Majere Ooo, I'd tell him that he made me feel incredi... Oct 17 2007, 01:54 PM Sulfur-in-K Be careful. Oct 17 2007, 07:36 PM jeanna i did that ^
after he said basically the same thi... Oct 17 2007, 09:47 PM Kay- Say the same about another guy.
Or straight up tel... Oct 17 2007, 10:36 PM cyb3r0ptik why not tell him
"hey, when you talk about so... Oct 18 2007, 10:14 AM S-Majere Something I missed when I replyed to this earlier ... Oct 18 2007, 10:25 AM barbieeedollxo if i was you i'd either be a bitch and be like... Oct 18 2007, 01:01 PM Sandraaa Oh my.
You should definitely confront him. Don... Oct 18 2007, 02:02 PM yaamakoh i used to do that too with one of my ex's, but... Oct 20 2007, 11:00 PM littleswallow Okay, that's just insensitive of him really... Oct 25 2007, 05:18 AM |
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