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post Sep 30 2007, 02:46 PM
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Me and my boyfriend are pretty serious but last night he told me after he graduates, he's moving to Ireland and i live in Canada! I would move with him but im only 13! And no, this isn't some dumb highschool relationship, we both are really in love.

Should i break up with him soon so it would be easier to say goodbye?
Should i REALLY move with him?
Should i wait for the time to come and just see what happens?
Do you think he'll atleased wait for me to graduate?
 
 
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Relentless
post Sep 30 2007, 03:42 PM
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Wow, he's graduating and ur only 13? IMO, kind of young to fall in love but whatever works for you.

Anyway, this is the same situation as my best friend. She fell in love with a guy (she was 14, he was 17 -- Now, she's 16, he's 19) and he had to go to San Diego.

They both end up argueing so much over the phone (& she ends up crying on the phone, while I tell her to forget him, but she can't since she loves him) and it depressed her so much because he eventually stops trusting her while they are apart. They ended up breaking up and getting back together. She says that she was really in love and wanted to hold on. But finally, 2-3 weeks, he stopped calling and it was officially broken up. She's happy now than being depressed & finally moved on and she was deeply in love with him. They were together for about a year and a half or 2 years? either one, lol.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS never work, or at least most of the time.

IMO. You're too YOUNG to live together in Ireland. You're only 13! You can try to do long distance but you won't know what he'll be doing or he won't know what you'll be doing. Making it harder for you're relationship.

Have you asked him, where ur gonna be in the picture when he moves to Ireland?

Just my two cents.
 
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post Oct 9 2007, 03:40 PM
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QUOTE(Relentless @ Sep 30 2007, 04:42 PM) *
Wow, he's graduating and ur only 13? IMO, kind of young to fall in love but whatever works for you.

Anyway, this is the same situation as my best friend. She fell in love with a guy (she was 14, he was 17 -- Now, she's 16, he's 19) and he had to go to San Diego.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS never work, or at least most of the time.

IMO. You're too YOUNG to live together in Ireland. You're only 13! You can try to do long distance but you won't know what he'll be doing or he won't know what you'll be doing. Making it harder for you're relationship.


Me and my boyfriend are that age (im 14, hes 17)..

Anyways I agree. I think your WAY too young to move to Ireland with him when he graduates. I think you should just try to keep in touch with him and when your older (if your still together) move their, it wouldent be any fun for him becuase you cant even drive yourself or anything yet so he would have to do like everything.
 

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