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I have trouble socializing
dododiva
post Oct 5 2007, 11:24 PM
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I'm bad at conversations.

I'm usually quiet and envious of those who have a lot confidence and can easily talk to everyone. Well, i am always cautious of what i say, i never want to say the wrong things-yet, i think i still do.

Also, I'm really really afraid of being alone with a person. I end up panicking, trying to figure out what to say or do. This is a problem because in the future, how will i talk to my (future)boyfriend? How will i make new friends?

Usually, i make friends through connections of i have other people become friends with me. I'm very very shy. And when people say "be yourself" I'm just like, "How?" because I don't know the real me.''

Sounds really lame, but hey, it's my problem.
 
 
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queen
post Oct 5 2007, 11:41 PM
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a lot of people are like you, and actually, i'd much prefer to be in the company of one like yourself than someone who talks too much. don't worry about it. when you meet the right people, you'll know what to say and when to say it. chemistry just happens.
 

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