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"In a relationship" or not?
Ashley_Brook
post Oct 2 2007, 11:06 PM
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I've been seeing this one guy for a couple months now and everything has been going really good. I met his parents about a week and a half ago and he dad asked, "Is this your girlfriend." My guy goes, "Yeah - ish." Note that at that time he said that, him and I hadn't discussed our status yet, although I started to like the idea of being considered his girlfriend, and I thought it was better than a "No this is just my friend" answer. Well I didn't want to be one to push a guy into a committed relationship before he was ready, so I thought that I would let him initiate any further discussion on the matter.

Just so happens, the next night I was with him, he said, "When they asked me if you were my girlfriend, I didn't know what to say." And then I asked, "Well what did you want to say?" and then he goes, "yeah" and then I got a little excited and flustered (in a good way) and said, "Okay, that's cool." and then that was it. I'm thinking, "Awesome, he's my bf."

The next day I changed my relationship status on myspace to 'In a relationship' right? Well it's been several days and his still says single which kind of is starting to bother me. I mean, he did bring the whole thing up himself. He was the one that initiated the convo about "I didn't know what to say when my dad asked me if you were my gf." So you would think that since he did bring that up that he does want to be my bf, right? If he didn't want to be my bf, he would have not brung it up again, right?

Anyways, should I be concerned about this?
 
 
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jammylise
post Oct 2 2007, 11:15 PM
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Gettin' worked up over myspace status is nothing to worry about
if you do want to give him a hint about it be like damn i still have single on my status, i need to change that.

then he would probably get the idea.

if not, be like "damn someone changed my status to "swinger" lol, what should i put "in a relationship" or "single" lol.

but really it's just myspace maybe he doesn't really care about that little detail and doesn't change it.

it's not like right after ya was bf&gf that he was thinking "omg, i should go change my myspace status.." wtf you know.

it's not that serious, unless he's myspace cheating.

don't take it to the heart though okay.


what matters the most is your relationship not your myspace status.
some dudes dont even remember about that or know how to do it.
 

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Ashley_Brook   "In a relationship" or not?   Oct 2 2007, 11:06 PM
doiink   eh, it's just facebook. and what he said IRL ...   Oct 2 2007, 11:08 PM
Larentia   QUOTE(doiink @ Oct 3 2007, 12:08 AM) eh, ...   Oct 3 2007, 03:08 PM
brooklyneast05   wow this is ridiculous if i was him i probably wo...   Oct 2 2007, 11:13 PM
jammylise   Gettin' worked up over myspace status is nothi...   Oct 2 2007, 11:15 PM
Elba   You could just confront him about it. Lucky, you ...   Oct 3 2007, 12:54 AM
justdecent   QUOTE(Elba @ Oct 3 2007, 01:54 AM) You co...   Oct 4 2007, 02:08 PM
misoshiru   you're concerned over a MYSPACE STATUS?! ...   Oct 3 2007, 12:59 AM
Alk3   lol. my guy & i still have "single" ...   Oct 3 2007, 02:11 AM
tungmyBANANA   ....wow..its f**ken myspace for gods sake.   Oct 3 2007, 02:20 AM
lidoxeddie   I keep my shit on single, thats how most guys roll...   Oct 3 2007, 02:29 AM
tungmyBANANA   thats cuz u are single eddie. lmao   Oct 3 2007, 02:30 AM
Insurmountable   I think you kind of left him in the dark by just s...   Oct 3 2007, 03:12 PM
tungmyBANANA   Wtf? You are thinking too much of this guy. Seriou...   Oct 4 2007, 03:40 PM
Programmer   over rated...you're to young...to be settling ...   Oct 7 2007, 01:08 AM
tungmyBANANA   too young? shes freakin 23 already lol.   Oct 7 2007, 01:09 AM
clarity   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Oct 7 2007, 02:09 AM...   Oct 23 2007, 03:54 PM
wreckless   lol dawg i'm not single wtf but dawg i meett...   Oct 7 2007, 01:29 AM
Kay-   Yeah, that's how it was for my and my boyfrien...   Oct 7 2007, 01:56 PM
Sandraaa   Maybe he forgot?   Oct 23 2007, 09:15 AM
Smilessss   eh i would believe his words more than his myspace...   Oct 23 2007, 09:26 PM
jeanna   wellll whenever a guy has married down and hides h...   Oct 23 2007, 10:00 PM
fall3n_s0ul   Guys tend to do that out of pride. I don't thi...   Oct 23 2007, 10:53 PM


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