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 Sep 30 2007, 02:46 PM
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Me and my boyfriend are pretty serious but last night he told me after he graduates, he's moving to Ireland and i live in Canada! I would move with him but im only 13! And no, this isn't some dumb highschool relationship, we both are really in love.
Should i break up with him soon so it would be easier to say goodbye? Should i REALLY move with him? Should i wait for the time to come and just see what happens? Do you think he'll atleased wait for me to graduate? |
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Sep 30 2007, 03:42 PM
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 sang loves hayden. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,373 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 5,687 |
Wow, he's graduating and ur only 13? IMO, kind of young to fall in love but whatever works for you.
Anyway, this is the same situation as my best friend. She fell in love with a guy (she was 14, he was 17 -- Now, she's 16, he's 19) and he had to go to San Diego. They both end up argueing so much over the phone (& she ends up crying on the phone, while I tell her to forget him, but she can't since she loves him) and it depressed her so much because he eventually stops trusting her while they are apart. They ended up breaking up and getting back together. She says that she was really in love and wanted to hold on. But finally, 2-3 weeks, he stopped calling and it was officially broken up. She's happy now than being depressed & finally moved on and she was deeply in love with him. They were together for about a year and a half or 2 years? either one, lol. LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS never work, or at least most of the time. IMO. You're too YOUNG to live together in Ireland. You're only 13! You can try to do long distance but you won't know what he'll be doing or he won't know what you'll be doing. Making it harder for you're relationship. Have you asked him, where ur gonna be in the picture when he moves to Ireland? Just my two cents. |
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Sep 30 2007, 04:41 PM
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QUOTE(Relentless @ Sep 30 2007, 03:42 PM)  LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS never work, or at least most of the time. No, they do work. I'm living proof of that. My boyfriend and I have been together for years, and now we go to separate universities. It isn't a problem. We make Skype dates, phonecall, text, email, use snailmail and msn together. It all depends on trust, respect and whether you are willing to wait for someone. I am. There's so many ways of staying in touch nowadays, that distance isn't an issue. It's the strenth of your relationship that is. Hope this helps. x |
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Kay- What will happen? Sep 30 2007, 02:46 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(Relentless @ Sep 30 2007, 04:42 PM)... Oct 9 2007, 03:40 PM
Relentless ^ That's why I said most of the time. Not ALL ... Sep 30 2007, 05:21 PM Elba Break up with him. One of you will end up cheating... Sep 30 2007, 05:26 PM Michelle QUOTE(Elba @ Sep 30 2007, 05:26 PM) Break... Sep 30 2007, 10:01 PM y0urelectrikk QUOTE(Michelle @ Sep 30 2007, 11:01 PM) I... Oct 2 2007, 03:47 PM lilsnoopy LMAO XDDDD
ARE YOU SERIOUS!?! Are you actu... Sep 30 2007, 10:24 PM katelynlingenfelter I think.. thats a little much for a thirteen year ... Oct 1 2007, 03:47 PM stephinika I agree with Michelle. If you really do love him, ... Oct 2 2007, 11:38 AM Becks539 You're 13 years old.
He's going to ireland... Oct 2 2007, 03:26 PM brooklyneast05 lol yea ^
what 13 year olds parents let them run ... Oct 2 2007, 03:39 PM pinacoolada Don't think about it now. Sorry to say but eve... Oct 6 2007, 07:43 AM jammylise is he 13?
cus you said when he graduates.
if he... Oct 6 2007, 08:00 AM |
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