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errfugly
post Sep 27 2007, 08:55 PM
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My 14 year old friend, who is a girl is in love with a 30 year old man. They talk a lot. And seem to like each other. She says he is really nice a sweet, She has known him for a long time now, and she said he asked her out but she says he doesn't talk about sex with her or anything.. but i don't want him to hurt her or for something to go wrong and her to get in trouble. What should i do?
 
 
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post Sep 27 2007, 10:02 PM
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NO. just no. Meeting in person or online, it doesn't matter. That's just not safe. I don't care if she says he's a nice guy or that he cares about her and just wants her to be happy. That's bs. Anyone can say that. That's just a way to get approval from her friends and gain her trust. He can put on that nice guy act. And eventually, he'll take advantage of her trust. There's a chance that she's going to get hurt. You know, predators aren't dumb these days. They can be very deceiving and sneaky. A 14 year old should go out with a 14 year old, not their dad.

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Okay. Maybe I have been a little too harsh because I've been watching too much of E Hollywood story. But also, my friend has gotten raped twice by older men. Supposedly, she fell in love with a man that's 10 years older than her. And he took advantage of her. She was really scarred after it happened. Don't let your friend have the same ending.
 

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errfugly   My friend is in love with a 30 year old   Sep 27 2007, 08:55 PM
brooklyneast05   punch her in the face   Sep 27 2007, 08:56 PM
revka   tell her parents   Sep 27 2007, 08:57 PM
brooklyneast05   ^ yea that first then punch her in the face after...   Sep 27 2007, 08:58 PM
Bishinobi   Well I personally dont have a problem with pedophi...   Sep 27 2007, 08:59 PM
brooklyneast05   [size=4][/size]QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007,...   Sep 27 2007, 09:00 PM
revka   QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 09:59 PM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 09:02 PM
Bishinobi   QUOTE(revka @ Sep 27 2007, 10:02 PM) are ...   Sep 27 2007, 09:08 PM
brooklyneast05   QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 09:08 PM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 09:11 PM
RAWRstephishere   QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 27 2007, 09:11...   Sep 27 2007, 09:14 PM
Bishinobi   QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 27 2007, 10:11...   Sep 27 2007, 09:15 PM
brooklyneast05   QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 09:15 PM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 09:15 PM
revka   QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 10:08 PM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 09:26 PM
Bishinobi   QUOTE(revka @ Sep 27 2007, 10:26 PM) so, ...   Sep 27 2007, 10:05 PM
brooklyneast05   QUOTE(Bishinobi @ Sep 27 2007, 10:05 PM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 10:09 PM
misoshiru   QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Sep 28 2007, 11:09...   Sep 27 2007, 10:16 PM
nosylilme   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Sep 27 2007, 08:16 PM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 10:53 PM
Bishinobi   QUOTE(nosylilme @ Sep 27 2007, 11:53 PM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 10:55 PM
misoshiru   QUOTE(nosylilme @ Sep 28 2007, 11:53 AM) ...   Sep 27 2007, 11:59 PM
salcha4u   YUCK tell her to get a grip...then punch her in th...   Sep 27 2007, 09:02 PM
Podomaht   look. the best thing to do is give her surprise bu...   Sep 27 2007, 09:04 PM
RAWRstephishere   Holy shit. Seriously, slap her back to reality. ...   Sep 27 2007, 09:08 PM
Bishinobi   Exactly. Why else would I have changed it?   Sep 27 2007, 09:20 PM
tungmyBANANA   Lol hes old enough to be her father. Meaning he w...   Sep 27 2007, 09:24 PM
tungmyBANANA   Dude girls these days are total sluts. Starting at...   Sep 27 2007, 09:27 PM
misoshiru   seriously, smack her first, and then kick him in t...   Sep 27 2007, 09:33 PM
doiink   okay, if they had known each other in PERSON, it M...   Sep 27 2007, 09:53 PM
BitterSweetness   NO. just no. Meeting in person or online, it doesn...   Sep 27 2007, 10:02 PM
tungmyBANANA   Cuz she's 14. Not 10. The four years of a girl...   Sep 28 2007, 12:01 AM
misoshiru   QUOTE(tungmyBANANA @ Sep 28 2007, 01:01 P...   Sep 28 2007, 12:11 AM
S-Majere   I read the title to this topic and winced. Most pr...   Sep 28 2007, 01:09 PM
SinfullySweet   This sounds like your problem rather than "my...   Sep 28 2007, 01:46 PM
errfugly   The didnt meet online. they know each other in rea...   Sep 28 2007, 06:54 PM
hollywoodpink   okay, i understand LUSTING after a 30 year old, bu...   Sep 28 2007, 07:24 PM
lilsnoopy   This guy...must be fat and ugly or something nasty...   Sep 28 2007, 07:36 PM
Moderator   I say never trust people online. I think you shoul...   Sep 28 2007, 07:50 PM
brooklyneast05   QUOTE(errfugly @ Sep 28 2007, 06:54 PM) T...   Sep 28 2007, 08:12 PM


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