I caught him & im still with him. Options

[Animeloverhk93]

Well me & T been going out since August 20th .hes 16 & im 14. yea hes been held back so now hes in 8th with me. when hes supposed to be in 11th (thats why hes in my classes) well i for reals like him. Well we were at this dance and he was slow dancing with me, and we look over and his cousin's girlfriend was dancing with some other dude. T got all pissed and was like "dayum i gotta tell my cousin." well he looks at me in the eyes and was like "baby tell me you wont ever dance with some other guy. " i said "never ever i love you too much" so yeah our dance was okay but he kept telling me to go away with my friend so it took me a while to look for my friend, and he would leave me there somtimes in the dance by myslef while i looked for my friend. well when that one "booty booty rockin every where" song played, i went to my friends and started dancing, i look over & there he was dancing with some other girl with that song. I look ever at my friend and tapped her and was like "i gotta go to the bathroom..." and i ran to the batroom and cried. . i found T again and he was like "whats wrong" and the dance was over. so i cried and i called him a hypocrite & i told him i still wanna be with him.

my point being, am i doing the right thing to stay with him & give him this second chance, i mean i already told him im not gonna give him a third. is this right ? & yes i do like him a lot hes my everything. and he lieks me back, but for some reason i feel like boys are always like this? i dont really know what to do anymore.

[xKatt]

I went through the same exact thing. I was in 7th grade and he was 16 years old, in the 8th grade.

Yeah, he was the most absolute sex-addicted psycho, womanizing, immoral, unreadable, selfish person on the planet. But he managed to charm me into being his girlfriend, and I hate myself for my impaired judgement.

Oh and he was also begging another girl to be his girlfriend behind my back while we were going out. Yeah, and she happened to be my friend, so... she told me, haha. And believe me, in a few years you'll be like "What the hell was I thinking?"

So take my advice

don't meddle with him. He's a jerk.

Find a guy with priorities. He's going to grow up to be a failure.