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friends comes first huh?
starmoonshore
post Sep 9 2007, 12:36 AM
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me and this one guy are in a situation where we're considered as "secret" lovers. even though we're NOT OFFICIALLY together, i worry about him all the time or even spend some time at least talking to him on the phone. however, whenever i call him, he always has a list of excuses:

1. i'll call you later i'm at a friend's house...
2. sorry my friend's over, can i talk to you later?
3. im in a youth group meeting. call you back.
4. im going to lunch with a friend. ttyl.
5. im out with my friends. so i'll talk to you later...

i mean, hello! his attention is always with his friends... he never spend time with me anymore. and by the time that he can talk to me... he always gonna say...

1. im sleepy now i'll just talk to you tomorrow.
2. im tired. i'll let you go now. i'll call you tomorrow.

of course, im stupid enough to wait for his call and he NEVER CALLED BACK THAT DAY OR THE NEXT DAY.

and now im thinking, do you think he's just really busy and i don't understand his situation? or he has no time for me because he never really love me at all? help me understand this situation. onegaishimasu... :)
 
 
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*Sandraaa*
post Sep 11 2007, 12:38 PM
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I'll just continue the repeatition. Truthfully, he doesn't like you and he's possibly dating someone else.
I am very sure he's avoiding you and if you continue in this path, he might start rejecting your calls (nothing could be more worse). Just let him go, let your feelings go. Stop calling him. Let him contact you in his own time.

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