I caught him & im still with him. Options

[Animeloverhk93]

Well me & T been going out since August 20th .hes 16 & im 14. yea hes been held back so now hes in 8th with me. when hes supposed to be in 11th (thats why hes in my classes) well i for reals like him. Well we were at this dance and he was slow dancing with me, and we look over and his cousin's girlfriend was dancing with some other dude. T got all pissed and was like "dayum i gotta tell my cousin." well he looks at me in the eyes and was like "baby tell me you wont ever dance with some other guy. " i said "never ever i love you too much" so yeah our dance was okay but he kept telling me to go away with my friend so it took me a while to look for my friend, and he would leave me there somtimes in the dance by myslef while i looked for my friend. well when that one "booty booty rockin every where" song played, i went to my friends and started dancing, i look over & there he was dancing with some other girl with that song. I look ever at my friend and tapped her and was like "i gotta go to the bathroom..." and i ran to the batroom and cried. . i found T again and he was like "whats wrong" and the dance was over. so i cried and i called him a hypocrite & i told him i still wanna be with him.

my point being, am i doing the right thing to stay with him & give him this second chance, i mean i already told him im not gonna give him a third. is this right ? & yes i do like him a lot hes my everything. and he lieks me back, but for some reason i feel like boys are always like this? i dont really know what to do anymore.

[*SinfullySweet*]

Oh, and Also, I reccomend you dont have any "relationships" when you're a tiny middle schooler. I have no clue why middle school/freshman kids try to even be a couple. You have to go on dates, i.e. actually going to restaraunts together, and not just "hold hands" at school to say you are dating, and that you are a couple.

I have to add too. What s-majare said, his love for you is bullshit. Sorry, but it is true. He seems to be infatuated with other women, and takes little consideration into your feelings.

Until you can drive, have a job, and are almost 18, enjoy your time as a young single girl. Go to parties, go out with friends, have fun, but dont get into relationships that have no meaning that only create drama.

Oh. He must be pretty stupid in the educational proportion of his life, seeing as how he got held back twice.