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 Sep 9 2007, 12:36 AM
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 fo`shizzLe  Group: Member Posts: 43 Joined: Jun 2006 Member No: 422,719  |
me and this one guy are in a situation where we're considered as "secret" lovers. even though we're NOT OFFICIALLY together, i worry about him all the time or even spend some time at least talking to him on the phone. however, whenever i call him, he always has a list of excuses:
1. i'll call you later i'm at a friend's house... 2. sorry my friend's over, can i talk to you later? 3. im in a youth group meeting. call you back. 4. im going to lunch with a friend. ttyl. 5. im out with my friends. so i'll talk to you later... i mean, hello! his attention is always with his friends... he never spend time with me anymore. and by the time that he can talk to me... he always gonna say... 1. im sleepy now i'll just talk to you tomorrow. 2. im tired. i'll let you go now. i'll call you tomorrow. of course, im stupid enough to wait for his call and he NEVER CALLED BACK THAT DAY OR THE NEXT DAY. and now im thinking, do you think he's just really busy and i don't understand his situation? or he has no time for me because he never really love me at all? help me understand this situation. onegaishimasu... :) |
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Sep 9 2007, 04:49 PM
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Again, I agree with the advice being given here.
Best thing to do? Phase him out and totally ignore him. Either he'll start wondering what he did wrong and crawl back to you (that is, if he likes you) or you'll both just drift apart. Either way, are you that bothered? And secret lovers? Are either of you that embarrassed of the other? |
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starmoonshore friends comes first huh? Sep 9 2007, 12:36 AM
Insurmountable As much as I don't want to say this, I really ... Sep 9 2007, 01:40 AM
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