my boyfriend issues., yes, i know you're all tired of hearing it but im so confused Options

[katelynlingenfel...]

So.. recently his friends have all turned on me and they make fun of me and stuff and he doesnt really stick up for me just kinda sighs and tells them to stop because he knows i expect him to. I mean.. he should right?

Also he also gets really mad at me and yells at me and calls me stupid, hopeless, blind, retarded and sometimes other things its just horrible. Then he tells me I dont treat him good enough just because I hang out with guys [most my friends are guys and they always have been]. He tells me I'm not being the best to him and that seriously hurts me.

He also thinks he's not doing anything wrong.. like at all.. like yelling at me and making me cry every day is healthy or something.

I talked to my mom about it and she told me that mental abuse is just as bad as physical but I dont see it as mental abuse.. he's good, sweet, caring, loving, kind, cuddly, and like a boyfriend most the time.. just not when he's around the friends that hate me/make fun of me. We've been together over half a year and all this stuff just started happening because his friends hate me now.

[*Uronacid*]

Ok, I'm going to actually give you real advice. Now... I don't usually give people serious advice. So, you'd better fucking listen to me, because I don't want to waste my time with someone who's not even going to read my fucking post. There is nothing that pisses me off more than wasted time.

Ask anyone on this forum that knows me. I'm extremely intelligent when in comes to relationships. I will give you good advice, but relationships are complicated and therefore my replies will also be complicated. I put time and effort into my serious replies, and I don't want to waste my time with someone who won't listen. This is partly why I bash so many people on this site. It's far easier and more fun than actually thinking about how to solve their problems.

So, before I post my sincere, and long ass answer... You have to respond to this post. Saying that you want my answer, and that you will read it.