my boyfriend issues., yes, i know you're all tired of hearing it but im so confused Options

[katelynlingenfel...]

So.. recently his friends have all turned on me and they make fun of me and stuff and he doesnt really stick up for me just kinda sighs and tells them to stop because he knows i expect him to. I mean.. he should right?

Also he also gets really mad at me and yells at me and calls me stupid, hopeless, blind, retarded and sometimes other things its just horrible. Then he tells me I dont treat him good enough just because I hang out with guys [most my friends are guys and they always have been]. He tells me I'm not being the best to him and that seriously hurts me.

He also thinks he's not doing anything wrong.. like at all.. like yelling at me and making me cry every day is healthy or something.

I talked to my mom about it and she told me that mental abuse is just as bad as physical but I dont see it as mental abuse.. he's good, sweet, caring, loving, kind, cuddly, and like a boyfriend most the time.. just not when he's around the friends that hate me/make fun of me. We've been together over half a year and all this stuff just started happening because his friends hate me now.

[Call911Quick]

I think...

his friends just have a wrong impression of you. If I see a girl with a nose ring, or a tounge ring, heavy mascara, I'd have some pretty negative first impressions of her too.

They just need to get to know you.

You AREN'T a drug/alcohol addict, gang member or anything, rite? If not, then just let then know ur actually real nice. (you ARE nice right?)

If ur bf's friends accept you then your bf SHOULD stop mistreatin you.




For example, at school there are these two girls I know (i'm a junior). One has a bellybutton ring, and maybe 4 piercings on each ear. She is one of the nicest people I know. She treats all the new kids real nice, and respects people with disability, or other "problems" . However, if you see her with her midriff and belly button ring, your first impression would be a shallow/preppy b*tch.

This other girl, has a tounge ring. Biggest b*tch I know. First impressions were the RIGHT impressions.