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OhSoCrazy
post Jun 8 2004, 04:15 PM
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i think im pregnant..ughhh pinch.gif , how do i tell my boyfriend?? SHould i tell my mom? I think i wanna die

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post Jun 16 2004, 10:47 AM
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QUOTE(OhSoCrazy @ Jun 16 2004, 10:19 AM)
okey so i went to the doctor huh.gif and im pregnant...honestly im like at a loss of words you know, the doctor said that i have different options if i wish to "terminate" the pregnancy, like either a conventional abortion or some pill called RU something. I still havent told my mom, she's on vacation until tommorow, like i said me and my boyfriend are really not in the best of terms so im just so confused in wat 2 do. My sister started screaming at me when i told her, because she also had a baby when she was 18 (by the way im 18)--i feel so irresponsable, careless, stupid and i dont even know wat. I cant even imagine the face of my parent's when i tell them im pregnant. The reason why this affects me is because in my neighborhood its like all odds are against you and i really didnt want to become part of the Latina statistic that we all have of dropping out and getting pregnant before 21..so im just so dissapointed at myself and i dont kno wat else to say

Having a child doesn't meant that it's over for you. It's very possible to continue your education after having the child, you DO NOT have to be one of the 'statistics'. Many women have done it before, be optimisitic.

You should talk to you Mom before deciding what to do with the pregnancy (to continue/to abort).

Do not take all of the blame, it takes two to tango. If you think you're irresponsible, your boyfriend's an a-hole, sorry to be so blunt. Whatever happens LET HIM KNOW. It will give him a wake up call and maybe he'll learn from it, too.
 

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OhSoCrazy   SCAAAaaaaRED   Jun 8 2004, 04:15 PM
xplicitmizz23   wow.. funny u posted this . cos i think i could be...   Jun 8 2004, 04:32 PM
177emories   ohhhh shit thats scary >_____<" don...   Jun 8 2004, 04:33 PM
177emories   QUOTE(xplicitmizz23 @ Jun 8 2004, 5:32 PM) wo...   Jun 8 2004, 04:35 PM
TiNaBaBY074   get about 2 or three home pregnancy tests before y...   Jun 8 2004, 11:57 PM
xplicitmizz23   QUOTE(177emories @ Jun 8 2004, 4:35 PM)wahhhh...   Jun 9 2004, 01:42 AM
TBoltzbabe   QUOTE(xplicitmizz23 @ Jun 8 2004, 4:32 PM) wo...   Jun 9 2004, 01:43 AM
xplicitmizz23   QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Jun 9 2004, 1:43 AM)hey, y...   Jun 9 2004, 01:56 AM
ryfitaDF   abort.   Jun 9 2004, 03:41 PM
ComradeRed   Abort, Retry, Ignore   Jun 9 2004, 04:42 PM
krnxswat   What're you doing posting here? You should ...   Jun 9 2004, 04:48 PM
ComradeRed   Consult the Pythic Oracle of Delphi. But be forewa...   Jun 9 2004, 04:52 PM
conster   O_O wow... um.. check wit ur doctors, im sure all ...   Jun 9 2004, 06:12 PM
l_baybeexgrl_l   QUOTE(ryfitaDF @ Jun 9 2004, 3:41 PM)abort. ...   Jun 12 2004, 01:10 AM
CEP   QUOTE(l_baybeexgrl_l @ Jun 11 2004, 11:10 PM)...   Jun 12 2004, 01:23 AM
mglbaby   awww sorry to hear dat get da pregnancy testin thi...   Jun 12 2004, 01:29 AM
TBoltzbabe   QUOTE(l_baybeexgrl_l @ Jun 12 2004, 1:10 AM)w...   Jun 12 2004, 01:52 AM
iheartsimba   first you need to find out for sure iwth a test or...   Jun 12 2004, 02:46 AM
kyootE_krn_bebe   make sure that you're positive you're preg...   Jun 12 2004, 08:03 AM
islandkiss   omg. okay, YOU DEFINATELY HAVE TO TALK TO SOMEONE...   Jun 12 2004, 09:50 AM
LilBrunette0313   Tell your boyfriend asap because it's just ask...   Jun 12 2004, 12:46 PM
OhSoCrazy   Okey, I have an appointment for Tuesday, i still h...   Jun 12 2004, 05:33 PM
BurstinStarzz   you should call him after the appointment...and do...   Jun 12 2004, 05:38 PM
angel-roh   does that thing says negative or positive? test th...   Jun 12 2004, 06:25 PM
LatinaLady   first tell your mom!!!!   Jun 12 2004, 06:27 PM
NvieDi3ai3yGrL   there's only one way to know for sure .. go ge...   Jun 12 2004, 06:28 PM
simplysweet259   well, you dont know whether you really are pregnan...   Jun 13 2004, 12:28 AM
OhSoCrazy   the reason why im so nervous to go to the doctor i...   Jun 13 2004, 12:46 AM
MrTurtle   i might be too. i know exactly how you feel, i...   Jun 13 2004, 09:28 PM
tainted_angel   QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ Jun 8 2004, 11:57 PM)get ...   Jun 14 2004, 01:03 AM
caramelx3   1. home pregnancy test 2. tell your mom 2. tell yo...   Jun 14 2004, 05:29 PM
Huggins   TELL YOUR MOM!!!!!!! w...   Jun 15 2004, 09:10 PM
koOoaznboi_510   QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Jun 12 2004, 1:52 AM)i wis...   Jun 15 2004, 09:32 PM
TBoltzbabe   alright tell us what happened at your apt today...   Jun 16 2004, 12:18 AM
K!$$   basically everything that should be said is said.....   Jun 16 2004, 08:03 AM
OhSoCrazy   okey so i went to the doctor and im pregnant...h...   Jun 16 2004, 10:19 AM
XaZnX07   aww thats so sad i am so sorry i would be freak ...   Jun 16 2004, 10:26 AM
mglbaby   awww! omg!! im soo sorry to hear dat.....   Jun 16 2004, 10:39 AM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(OhSoCrazy @ Jun 16 2004, 10:19 AM)okey ...   Jun 16 2004, 10:47 AM
princess2113   u need to tell ur mom, and then ur bf....i wuldnt ...   Jun 16 2004, 11:06 AM
OhSoCrazy   Thnx for the advice everyone , my mom called and ...   Jun 16 2004, 01:06 PM
Yemmerz   Oh my gosh. I hope you feel better. Don't feel...   Jun 16 2004, 01:22 PM
l_baybeexgrl_l   dont get an abortion.. bc thats just really wrong....   Jun 16 2004, 04:45 PM
LoST SouL   wow well i dun believe in abortions but its up to ...   Jun 16 2004, 04:59 PM
OhSoCrazy   i know that abortion itself is wrong, but the situ...   Jun 16 2004, 04:59 PM
LoST SouL   ive been in the same situation (thankfully i wasnt...   Jun 16 2004, 05:10 PM
Spirited Away   QUOTE(OhSoCrazy @ Jun 16 2004, 4:59 PM)i know...   Jun 16 2004, 05:23 PM
OhSoCrazy   of course there are women who do even better when ...   Jun 16 2004, 07:53 PM
l_baybeexgrl_l   did u tell ur parents / bf yet?   Jun 22 2004, 03:03 PM
OhSoCrazy   i told my parents and they are really angry at me,...   Jun 23 2004, 12:01 AM
babixangela   Take a pregnancy test and get The Day After Pill.   Jun 25 2004, 05:33 PM
princess2113   QUOTE(OhSoCrazy @ Jun 23 2004, 12:01 AM)i tol...   Jun 25 2004, 08:37 PM
Mini   she cant force you to have an abortion. anyways, i...   Jun 25 2004, 09:09 PM
ji_cabinx   ah hah...good luck...sorry, but i dunno what to sa...   Jun 30 2004, 05:06 PM
l_baybeexgrl_l   well... did they let ur sister keep her baby? ... ...   Jun 30 2004, 05:25 PM
bbyxstac3y   oh damn that ish scaryy well ob course yoo should...   Jun 30 2004, 06:04 PM
bbyxstac3y   QUOTEwahhhh i heard if you MISS a day of using the...   Jun 30 2004, 06:07 PM
ComradeRed   Abort! Abort! Abort!   Jul 1 2004, 07:35 PM
straightedge9   uhhh thats bad... USE PROTECTION!!!...   Jul 1 2004, 07:48 PM
TBoltzbabe   yes, she can't force you to get an abortion be...   Jul 2 2004, 12:54 AM
pm3k   QUOTE(TBoltzbabe @ Jun 12 2004, 1:52 AM)i wis...   Jul 2 2004, 01:29 AM
princess2113   do what u think is right, not what ur mom says to ...   Jul 15 2004, 02:13 PM
sheepy   QUOTE(LilBrunette0313 @ Jun 12 2004, 12:46 PM...   Jul 15 2004, 05:14 PM
xsweetdreams12x   How old are you?? Anyways, tell your boyfriend fi...   Jul 15 2004, 09:12 PM
xpiixeespriitx   its stuff like this that just make my skin crawl, ...   Jul 16 2004, 10:59 PM
WendyLynn182   I think that first you need to tell your mother an...   Jul 16 2004, 11:25 PM
AngelicEyz00   some of you people don't even read all the pos...   Jul 17 2004, 12:05 AM
audory   wow.. yooh should DEFINETELY tell ure parents (err...   Jul 17 2004, 03:49 AM
audory   wow oops srriii i was reading tha beginning nd i d...   Jul 17 2004, 03:51 AM
defjam_gangsta   Greetings!! i think ya need to tell GOD f...   Jul 17 2004, 06:20 AM
sunshiNe_sweeTi_   make sure ur pregnant...then tell ur parents...   Aug 9 2004, 05:21 PM


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