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Kay-
post Aug 22 2007, 05:42 PM
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Ok, well im going in to grade 8 and my new boyfriend is going in to grade 11. Is that really wrong? Have you guys ever had an older boyfriend?
 
 
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post Sep 4 2007, 09:19 PM
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Hahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahha.

Wow. The naivety.

Excuse me, while there are guys like that, there are also guys like mine.
I started going out with my current boyfriend when I was in 9th and he was in 12th. I am now going into 12th and he is in his 2nd year in college. We didn't even have sex until last September (2006). We started going out in February 2005.

So please, spare us your lecture.


Its not about being naive.
Its about generalizing and sterotyping
Both of these concepts have groundconcrete reasons for being around.

Its nice to know that your relationships worked out. Really it is.
I must say, your bf has maturity and respect toward you.

Most dont. And I say most, not all, since not all boys are pigs.
Yet she's right when saying that when a boy turns his attention to a girl whos in middle school, or a freshman (when hes a senior), he normally is interested in something more than the girl.
Girls are easily prone to a love feeling when their in a relationship or having sex, guys are differnt.
They have a rush, not love when havng sex or starting a relationship.

Of course I mean this when the dude doesnt know the girl. As in, he just met her, and has no past history.
When your below the age of 18, large age gaps are not good in a relationship for varous reasons. People throw love around as if its candy anymore
 

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Kay-   Old boyfriend   Aug 22 2007, 05:42 PM
xprobablecausex   I dated a guy that was 5 years older than me. *shr...   Aug 22 2007, 06:10 PM
doomXL   I had a boyfriend 6 years older... idk i like old...   Aug 25 2007, 08:17 PM
omgomgKATHY   once he's 18 it'll be a big stretch.   Aug 22 2007, 06:36 PM
mszxkay   well that depends. i'm "talking to this g...   Aug 22 2007, 07:04 PM
SoEffinMajor   i think that it's too much of an age differnce...   Aug 22 2007, 08:22 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   QUOTE(SoEffinMajor @ Aug 22 2007, 09:22 P...   Aug 24 2007, 08:47 AM
pinayprincess   now u know he just wants you for one thing; i...   Aug 22 2007, 09:48 PM
KayleighKins   Yup. Thats just a whole lotta cradle robbin' n...   Aug 22 2007, 10:54 PM
lAYDEEessence   i agree thats kinda young.. im in 9th grade, and t...   Aug 22 2007, 10:57 PM
xburnoutx00   QUOTE(lAYDEEessence @ Aug 22 2007, 10:57 ...   Aug 25 2007, 06:55 PM
Kay-   Can that really happen? Because i live in Canada a...   Aug 22 2007, 11:06 PM
lorrytruck;   I was 14 and he was 18 (frosh & senior). Lots ...   Aug 23 2007, 12:56 AM
TimeZonesAway   yeah there are a lot of things that it depends on....   Aug 23 2007, 01:05 AM
Steven   3 grade difference. At that age it's a larger...   Aug 23 2007, 08:22 AM
RAWRstephishere   Hm. He might be using you. I would probably wait ...   Aug 24 2007, 07:46 AM
jammylise   Well then that mean he's like 16/17 years old....   Aug 24 2007, 08:43 AM
anydaynow   It wouldn't be a big deal if you were older, b...   Aug 24 2007, 03:34 PM
Kay-   But this year both of us are going to be in highsc...   Aug 24 2007, 10:07 PM
gigiopolis   In Canada, high school starts at 8th grade, so the...   Aug 25 2007, 05:21 AM
xprobablecausex   QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Aug 25 2007, 05:21 AM)...   Aug 25 2007, 03:26 PM
gigiopolis   QUOTE(xprobablecausex @ Aug 25 2007, 01:2...   Aug 29 2007, 12:33 AM
Michelle   My friend did that exact same thing! And I did...   Aug 25 2007, 02:48 PM
false   My girlfriend is older than me. She's the reas...   Aug 25 2007, 08:39 PM
Peanups   I liked a guy in 8th grade and he was graduating h...   Aug 25 2007, 08:40 PM
souperstition   QUOTE(false @ Aug 25 2007, 08:39 PM) My g...   Aug 25 2007, 08:40 PM
false   QUOTE(souperstition @ Aug 25 2007, 06:40 ...   Aug 25 2007, 08:45 PM
jennyjenny   I'm in 11th grade right now and if I ever knew...   Aug 25 2007, 10:34 PM
lilsnoopy   Theres an ok...and a not ok ok = after high schoo...   Sep 1 2007, 03:40 PM
blacknailpolish   ^ I have to agree... although summer before eigth ...   Sep 3 2007, 07:09 PM
faydedprimadonna   i know from personal experience that any older guy...   Sep 3 2007, 09:02 PM
revoltaire   QUOTE(faydedprimadonna @ Sep 3 2007, 09:0...   Sep 3 2007, 11:20 PM
stephinika   ^^ Yeah, it isn't all that bad. It really just...   Sep 4 2007, 01:23 AM
Uronacid   I don't know... I don't think age is bad, ...   Sep 4 2007, 10:05 AM
faydedprimadonna   ^ aww... you disappoint me ok... so i generalized...   Sep 4 2007, 11:39 AM
Girthy   three years isnt a big difference. pffft.   Sep 4 2007, 01:11 PM
charlg93   nuthing wrong with it, iv done same, and im just g...   Sep 4 2007, 01:22 PM
lilsnoopy   QUOTEHahahahahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahha. ...   Sep 4 2007, 09:19 PM


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