my boyfriend issues., yes, i know you're all tired of hearing it but im so confused Options

[katelynlingenfel...]

So.. recently his friends have all turned on me and they make fun of me and stuff and he doesnt really stick up for me just kinda sighs and tells them to stop because he knows i expect him to. I mean.. he should right?

Also he also gets really mad at me and yells at me and calls me stupid, hopeless, blind, retarded and sometimes other things its just horrible. Then he tells me I dont treat him good enough just because I hang out with guys [most my friends are guys and they always have been]. He tells me I'm not being the best to him and that seriously hurts me.

He also thinks he's not doing anything wrong.. like at all.. like yelling at me and making me cry every day is healthy or something.

I talked to my mom about it and she told me that mental abuse is just as bad as physical but I dont see it as mental abuse.. he's good, sweet, caring, loving, kind, cuddly, and like a boyfriend most the time.. just not when he's around the friends that hate me/make fun of me. We've been together over half a year and all this stuff just started happening because his friends hate me now.

[Comptine]

Dump his ass.

If he can't manage to be a decent human being, nevertheless a good boyfriend, just because of his friends, then he isn't worth your time.

You, yourself, comprehend that your relationship isn't healthy. He doesn't treat you with respect and he's being mentally abusive you.

You think that you can stay with him because he's a good boyfriend except when he's with friends. But then, sooner or later, his friends opinions will influence even when he's not with them.

Break up before it gets worse and find someone who can treat you respectfully no matter who he's around.