staying together for the kid(s)..., is it worth it? |
staying together for the kid(s)..., is it worth it? |
Aug 29 2007, 09:08 PM
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![]() ŽedneŠk w¤mĒn ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 561,647 |
so i'm having a dilemma... my boyfriend and i have a 6 month old baby girl and i'm having a really hard time with this... i love being a mom (even if it is really frustrating) but my boyfriend and i have lost our relationship completely... we barely talk to each other, we fight alot when we do talk, we haven't even touched in months... it's really frustrating because i need to be in a relationship where i feel loved, wanted, appreciated, and happy, but i'm not getting that anymore... he's suggested that we go to couple's counseling, but he's also suggested that i go to a shrink and get meds... i don't think that he's willing to change, and basically just expects me to do all the compromising... is it worth the personal struggle to keep my daughter away from having a broke home? or is it worse for her in the long run?
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Aug 29 2007, 09:40 PM
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Mais je ne l'aime pas ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 971 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,135 |
I think you should definitely take couple's counseling.
Try your best to work out any differences you both have. If you guys are really tired of each other, then you should break it off. Your child will be able to sense if their parents are unhappy with each other. If you do break it off, then work out a kind of agreement for quality time with your child. |
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Aug 30 2007, 05:56 PM
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![]() for SHIZZ. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 878 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 435,846 |
I think you should definitely take couple's counseling. Try your best to work out any differences you both have. If you guys are really tired of each other, then you should break it off. Your child will be able to sense if their parents are unhappy with each other. If you do break it off, then work out a kind of agreement for quality time with your child. I think this is the best advice, try to work things out the best way that you can. If things Improve then I say you give your relationship another try. But if you feel that things aren't getting any better, just break it off. However I think you should try to still have some sort of a relationship with him (friendship maybe) for the childs sake. |
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faydedprimadonna staying together for the kid(s)... Aug 29 2007, 09:08 PM
kimmytree I think you should try counseling before you try t... Aug 29 2007, 09:13 PM
faydedprimadonna thanks... i think i'm gonna try the counseling... Aug 29 2007, 09:15 PM
ersatz There's obviously faults on both ends, so if y... Aug 29 2007, 09:19 PM
faydedprimadonna that's wat i'm hoping for... however, i ca... Aug 29 2007, 09:23 PM
Insurmountable QUOTE(towntown2 @ Aug 29 2007, 10:40 PM) ... Aug 30 2007, 03:45 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(towntown2 @ Aug 29 2007, 10:40 PM) ... Aug 31 2007, 09:17 AM
N3RDYY Sometimes it worsens things severly.
If you want ... Aug 30 2007, 05:20 PM
faydedprimadonna thanks guys! somtimes i think about stuff sooo... Aug 30 2007, 07:32 PM
RAWRstephishere Try to work things out first.
But no kid wants fi... Aug 31 2007, 08:07 PM
RogueVanity Definitely go to couples counselling.. as you said... Sep 1 2007, 08:10 PM
faydedprimadonna thanks ofr all the good advice guys i looked up a... Sep 3 2007, 12:17 PM![]() ![]() |