staying together for the kid(s)..., is it worth it? |
 Aug 29 2007, 09:08 PM
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 ŽedneŠk w¤mĒn  Group: Member Posts: 121 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 561,647  |
so i'm having a dilemma... my boyfriend and i have a 6 month old baby girl and i'm having a really hard time with this... i love being a mom (even if it is really frustrating) but my boyfriend and i have lost our relationship completely... we barely talk to each other, we fight alot when we do talk, we haven't even touched in months... it's really frustrating because i need to be in a relationship where i feel loved, wanted, appreciated, and happy, but i'm not getting that anymore... he's suggested that we go to couple's counseling, but he's also suggested that i go to a shrink and get meds... i don't think that he's willing to change, and basically just expects me to do all the compromising... is it worth the personal struggle to keep my daughter away from having a broke home? or is it worse for her in the long run?
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Aug 30 2007, 05:20 PM
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 Hablamos Espaņol. Group: Official Member Posts: 1,283 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 549,364 |
Sometimes it worsens things severly.
If you want in you want in because YOU love him and you want to be with him. Kids only suffer from having parents fight. Plus shes really young so you have about 3 years before her memory is wipped. So if your going to fix things do it now before she can actually remember what goes on. |
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faydedprimadonna staying together for the kid(s)... Aug 29 2007, 09:08 PM
kimmytree I think you should try counseling before you try t... Aug 29 2007, 09:13 PM faydedprimadonna thanks... i think i'm gonna try the counseling... Aug 29 2007, 09:15 PM ersatz There's obviously faults on both ends, so if y... Aug 29 2007, 09:19 PM faydedprimadonna that's wat i'm hoping for... however, i ca... Aug 29 2007, 09:23 PM towntown2 I think you should definitely take couple's co... Aug 29 2007, 09:40 PM
Insurmountable QUOTE(towntown2 @ Aug 29 2007, 10:40 PM) ... Aug 30 2007, 03:45 PM omgomgKATHY QUOTE(towntown2 @ Aug 29 2007, 10:40 PM) ... Aug 30 2007, 05:56 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX QUOTE(towntown2 @ Aug 29 2007, 10:40 PM) ... Aug 31 2007, 09:17 AM faydedprimadonna thanks guys! somtimes i think about stuff sooo... Aug 30 2007, 07:32 PM RAWRstephishere Try to work things out first.
But no kid wants fi... Aug 31 2007, 08:07 PM RogueVanity Definitely go to couples counselling.. as you said... Sep 1 2007, 08:10 PM faydedprimadonna thanks ofr all the good advice guys i looked up a... Sep 3 2007, 12:17 PM |
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