free guilt pass? Options

[pinayprincess]

has anybody seen the movie AMERICAN PIE: The naked mile [2006] it was a movie just to see (b/c my boyfriend brought it up) so i was curious... anywho, in the movie the girlfriend mentions a FREE-GUILT-PASS for her boyfriend who was dying to have sex with her... both were virgins, and were both scared...so she allowed the guy to do w/e [including sex] over the weekend to get the feeling over with....

so back to point; would you allow your significant other to have a "free guilt pass"? im in the situation where my boyfriend wants one b/c we havent seen each other... its getting me so mad right now just thinking about it

--yes im NOT a virgin
--& been together for about 10 months now...

[*Insurmountable*]

OMG i would be so f**king mad if my boyfriend actually suggested something like that

I mean come on, you choose this commitment to be with me and if you don't want to stick by it and be faithful and just want to go fool around with someone else just to make your body happy, thats pathetic.

That's like wanting to cheat on me but get my consent first.



Oh I've been in a long distance relationship for the past year and a little of half..so I mean since we have been separated for such a long time and only see each other for a week or longer every 6 months then I guess I would be really upset for him to suggest something like that.



Oh Also,
How much longer until you guys get to see each other and how long has it been so far?
And Don't you think when you guys see each other next then you'll be so happy to see each other and he could just unleash all those feelings he wanted to...
also don't you think that could really screw up your relationship? Look at it from a bigger picture...if he goes off and fools around with some girl and he likes it...then he could possibly even break up with you to go be with some girl thats closer.

[pinayprincess]

Oh Also,
How much longer until you guys get to see each other and how long has it been so far?
And Don't you think when you guys see each other next then you'll be so happy to see each other and he could just unleash all those feelings he wanted to...
also don't you think that could really screw up your relationship? Look at it from a bigger picture...if he goes off and fools around with some girl and he likes it...then he could possibly even break up with you to go be with some girl thats closer.

well, we've been together for a while and we've seen each other almost everyday, just the fact that its the summer time and its kind of hard to see each other at the momment, he wanted to have a 'guilt free pass'.. i know those wont work out and chances are that he could move on if that happened... thats why i never believe in BREAKS....urghh sooo complicated!