not knowing a lot about sex, and being sexually active Options

[yupimchuck]

it really frustrates me to see a lot of young girls, or even guy, being sexually active, or having sex,
but not knowing anything about what theyre doing.

for instance, i have a friend
who had sex her first time, didnt use a condom and took the morning after pill because she was paranoid,
had sex the next day and no condom
she freaked out and took a pregnancy test about a week later, and then another


and asked me if she could go to the doctor and if they could stick their finger up her vagina and see if she was pregnant or not?

she also asked me if you could get pregnant from dry humping....


i mean, are you kidding?


i relaly do wish people just learned about what they were doing before they started doing it.

what are your opinions on this?

im sorry this is really confusing topic ot me and i really am unsure how to word it

i just feel like people not being knowledgeable is what causes teen pregnancies, abortions, stds, and "accidents"

[lovescream]

I think the Sex ed. classes really need to be like, rethought about because everything they teach is shit that either we already know or they don't teach us crap we don't know but should.

Anyway, I think that's absolutely stupid. I'd expect everyone to have sex ed. to at least know to have safe sex. Or, you know, at least know that you can't get pregnant unless there's an actual vaginal intercourse. But you know, if she wants to have sex w/o a condom, it's her fault. Her problems.

BLAAAAH. I also blame the messed-up world and messed-up media for showing teens so many sexual things. curiousity kills. :x

[yupimchuck]

I think the Sex ed. classes really need to be like, rethought about because everything they teach is shit that either we already know or they don't teach us crap we don't know but should.

Anyway, I think that's absolutely stupid. I'd expect everyone to have sex ed. to at least know to have safe sex. Or, you know, at least know that you can't get pregnant unless there's an actual vaginal intercourse. But you know, if she wants to have sex w/o a condom, it's her fault. Her problems.

BLAAAAH. I also blame the messed-up world and messed-up media for showing teens so many sexual things. curiousity kills. :x

you know there is a chance you can get pregnant from anal sex right?

I think that's silly but she have to have an long talk with her mom or anyone willing to talk, how old is she? She should start learning about STDs by now in school, maybe she would have second thoughts.

shes sixteen
and she constantly comes to me to ask me things
and id ont mind
but i swear she pills the questions out of her ass.

and she says she asks this "nurse" at her work stuf like she asks me
but her "nurse" has been wrong so many times. so i dont really know what to say to her

she confides in other people so shes not as paranoid basically

[RAWRstephishere]

you know there is a chance you can get pregnant from anal sex right?

Dont think so..