help, relationship troubles Options

[bunnybabe120]

So I've been dating this guy for a little less then a year We really are into each other. I love him he loves me. Normally we see each other everyday at college but during the summer we get to see each other once or twice a week. Now wednesday night he tells me we should take a break. that we ae too touchy feely we need to work on the us. Apparently, i am too clingy. What i don't get is how come it is ok for him to clingy when he wants but not ok for me to be a little clingy? How is it ok for him to mention that he is spending the day that was his anniversary with his ex and not expect me get jealous? I mean i am always worried he will cheat on me with her because he did with his last girlfriend. Anyway i need to know what to do. I still love him. Should i dump him once and for all? Should i try to win him back? and if so how?

[*Sandraaa*]

As early stated, ask him exactly what he meant by clingy.

How is it ok for him to mention that he is spending the day that was his anniversary with his ex and not expect me get jealous?

I don't get this. Was it their anniversary or yours? If it was your anniversary and he spent it with his EX, then I don't understand why you're still with him.

[Rachel]

As early stated, ask him exactly what he meant by clingy.
I don't get this. Was it their anniversary or yours? If it was your anniversary and he spent it with his EX, then I don't understand why you're still with him.

I think she means it was their anniversary, which would also warrant the question of why are you still with. Michelle said it best; communication. You need to let him know whats up, especially since you are worried about cheating. That worry is probably why you are (unconsciously) clingy.