not knowing a lot about sex, and being sexually active Options

[yupimchuck]

it really frustrates me to see a lot of young girls, or even guy, being sexually active, or having sex,
but not knowing anything about what theyre doing.

for instance, i have a friend
who had sex her first time, didnt use a condom and took the morning after pill because she was paranoid,
had sex the next day and no condom
she freaked out and took a pregnancy test about a week later, and then another


and asked me if she could go to the doctor and if they could stick their finger up her vagina and see if she was pregnant or not?

she also asked me if you could get pregnant from dry humping....


i mean, are you kidding?


i relaly do wish people just learned about what they were doing before they started doing it.

what are your opinions on this?

im sorry this is really confusing topic ot me and i really am unsure how to word it

i just feel like people not being knowledgeable is what causes teen pregnancies, abortions, stds, and "accidents"

[ClaudelGFX]

How about you Guru's of Sex start a new topic named Sex Class ?:))
It doesn't really matter that much if you use a condom or a pill, because there have been lot of cases with ppl getting pregnant with any secure things ever existed, when it comes to sex and pregnancy, its all about the man, cuz the penis is in charge of that job, So first of, before getting into any acts, ask your BF if he really knows what's he's doing and secondly IF he has any condom, IF he doesn't, you should have one and pills. Its well known that mens are kinda forgetfull when it comes to condoms so its your job to, to think about all the consequices and thinks you should be prepared before you jump in bed.

I for one, used a condom only once in my life, didn't liked the feeling so since then i don't use condoms anymore, i just know how to control myself, and for sure noone got pregnant of all the sex "adventures" i ever had.

[Comptine]

How about you Guru's of Sex start a new topic named Sex Class ?:))
It doesn't really matter that much if you use a condom or a pill, because there have been lot of cases with ppl getting pregnant with any secure things ever existed, when it comes to sex and pregnancy, its all about the man, cuz the penis is in charge of that job, So first of, before getting into any acts, ask your BF if he really knows what's he's doing and secondly IF he has any condom, IF he doesn't, you should have one and pills. Its well known that mens are kinda forgetfull when it comes to condoms so its your job to, to think about all the consequices and thinks you should be prepared before you jump in bed.

I for one, used a condom only once in my life, didn't liked the feeling so since then i don't use condoms anymore, i just know how to control myself, and for sure noone got pregnant of all the sex "adventures" i ever had.

I think your post shows that you are just as ignorant as the girl mentioned in this topic.

First of all, a condom can break yes and the pill can fail yes. But with today's amount of contraceptives, there's no excuse for stupidity. The pill rarely fails. The most common side effect of the pill is not failing to prevent pregnancy but it makes the women sick or lose their libido. Condoms break but even that is not that common.

Second, you don't use a condom cause you don't like it? But you say you have self control? Do the girls have birth control? That's a stupid risk to take. That's the kinda of risk uneducated young boys take. "As long as I pull out, no mini-mes."

We really should bring Sex Ed. to lower grades. Teach them extensively so we can have less idiots procreating with each other rolleyes.gif


(idiot may be a strong word, I suppose. Sorry bout that)

I agree. At my high school, Health is taught during Junior year but that's useless. I know for a fact that many of my peers were already sexually active or taking drugs or drinking.

I think abstinence only sex ed classes do more harm than good.