not knowing a lot about sex, and being sexually active Options

[yupimchuck]

it really frustrates me to see a lot of young girls, or even guy, being sexually active, or having sex,
but not knowing anything about what theyre doing.

for instance, i have a friend
who had sex her first time, didnt use a condom and took the morning after pill because she was paranoid,
had sex the next day and no condom
she freaked out and took a pregnancy test about a week later, and then another


and asked me if she could go to the doctor and if they could stick their finger up her vagina and see if she was pregnant or not?

she also asked me if you could get pregnant from dry humping....


i mean, are you kidding?


i relaly do wish people just learned about what they were doing before they started doing it.

what are your opinions on this?

im sorry this is really confusing topic ot me and i really am unsure how to word it

i just feel like people not being knowledgeable is what causes teen pregnancies, abortions, stds, and "accidents"

[yupimchuck]

in my school, their is a health class
and during the year you take gym, you switch out to health a few times (but its 2 different health classes)
and you take gym your freshman year (in most cases)


and they dont teach you about these things
they teach you abotu how to avoid std's

and abstinence.
and what its like ot get pregnant

basically they try to scare you out of havign sex,
instead of teachign you about it.


whats sad, is that about i out of 10 girls in my school is pregnant or has been