help, relationship troubles Options

[bunnybabe120]

So I've been dating this guy for a little less then a year We really are into each other. I love him he loves me. Normally we see each other everyday at college but during the summer we get to see each other once or twice a week. Now wednesday night he tells me we should take a break. that we ae too touchy feely we need to work on the us. Apparently, i am too clingy. What i don't get is how come it is ok for him to clingy when he wants but not ok for me to be a little clingy? How is it ok for him to mention that he is spending the day that was his anniversary with his ex and not expect me get jealous? I mean i am always worried he will cheat on me with her because he did with his last girlfriend. Anyway i need to know what to do. I still love him. Should i dump him once and for all? Should i try to win him back? and if so how?

[*Michelle*]

If you want to stay with him, you should clear up with him what he means by "clingy." Ask him for examples of ways in which acts of "clinginess" can bother him and the ones he likes (sorry my sentence is so poorly written).

Also, a concern on cheating is very important to bring up. You should definitely tell him how you feel about that. And if he has cheated before, there are bigger chances that he will cheat again.

If he doesn't like clingy girls, play him hot and cold. :P