Confusion Options

[GRomanovEsq08]

ok so im a guy that has way too many girl who are friends. And now im totally confused about my sexuality. I like the idea of a relationship with a girl based on true romance and the sex as well. But on the other hand I like guys . And mostly like them for their bodies. All my life everyone has discriminated me being gay because of what i sounded like(and to tell you the truth i do have a girlie voice but not really girlie). And once people heard me talk they thought i was gay. I dont know what to do I have fantasies about guys mostly but thats just the sex. For girls i imagine to have a relationship. I know you guys can choose for me but i was wondering for some help. In the end ill have to make the decision.

[Juris Khan]

i think what you're experiencing is completely normal. if you had to be labeled, i think it would be bi-curious. it's the best conformative label. it may turn out to be that you're bisexual, judging on what you've said, but i also agree with x_curse_of_the_curves_x that perhaps you should experiment sexually with both sexes. i dont mean go out there and be a slut, of course, and of course, you should be protected, but perhaps just see if you like both guys and girls, both personality wise and sexually, etc. i'm afraid this will come of as shallow, but i think it's really the best thing to do. you know, if it helps, i went through the same thing, and it took me a little bit of experimenting and time to decide, and i know what i am. even though labels can be limiting, they can also help as guidelines, and i've found that i'm bisexual. but it took me a while to figure it out...about 2 years, acuatlly, so dont be distressed if it takes you a while to figure it out. it can be a very hard thing to figure out and it can be distressing too. like you said, it could be pressure from others. i had that too. lots of people always were saying "he's gay, he's gotta be" so i know what its like to have pressure too...and this pressure could influence your decisions...it's good, though, that your parents would accept it, cause for me, even though they say they would, i know that inside, they'd be really upset about it...that was part of my problem, but it should make it easier for you...anyways, i think i've rambled enough, and i hope this helps...