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Separation Anxiety ;; My Baby's On Vacation ♥, How do you feel when your "significant other" goes away?
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post Aug 6 2007, 05:22 PM
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So my boyfriend left for a retreat yesterday, he'll be back on friday but i have
[HORRIBLE and TERRIBLE]
separation axiety, depression.. THE WORKS!

its been a month straight that ive hung out with him all day everyday.

cry.gif im so sad.

The question at hand is:

How do YOU feel when your significant other has to go away for "X" amount of time, and how do you cope?

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How do you feel when your "significant other" goes away?
 
 
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post Aug 7 2007, 02:56 AM
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Stop being so selfish and get over it. 3 times a day 10 minutes each is PLENTY. You and your boyfriend should both have your own lives.

I've been with my boyfriend for two years and the entire last year he was away for school. I saw him at winter break and at reading break. It was hard, yes and it will be this coming year but you need to learn to live your own life anyway. That's the only way your relationship can be healthy.

Maybe it's just how I am as an individual, but as much as I miss my boyfriend, I enjoy it when he goes away for little retreats and things. Having extra time to spend with my friends, by myself... I feel it energizes myself and makes me even more happy to see him when he does return.
 
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post Aug 7 2007, 03:45 PM
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QUOTE(jennypie @ Aug 7 2007, 03:56 AM) *
Stop being so selfish and get over it. 3 times a day 10 minutes each is PLENTY. You and your boyfriend should both have your own lives.


Shut the f**k up and YOU get a life, i miss him and how the f**k is that wrong?

I dont give ashit how long youve been with your boyfriend its not about HOW LONG you've been with someone its about how you feel.

and right now im f**king pissed off.

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ok.

sorry about that.
 

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N3RDYY   Separation Anxiety ;; My Baby's On Vacation ♥   Aug 6 2007, 05:22 PM
1angel3   Make yourself busy. Clean the house.   Aug 6 2007, 05:23 PM
N3RDYY   QUOTE(1angel3 @ Aug 6 2007, 06:23 PM) Mak...   Aug 6 2007, 05:25 PM
1angel3   QUOTE(N3RDYY @ Aug 6 2007, 02:25 PM) Ther...   Aug 6 2007, 05:40 PM
N3RDYY   its actually kind of hard because theyre really bu...   Aug 6 2007, 05:58 PM
pinayprincess   i feel scared... but i try to trust him... im away...   Aug 6 2007, 06:16 PM
N3RDYY   ^^^^ i trust him i just miss him terribly.   Aug 6 2007, 06:27 PM
Rachel   Wow get over it. I have spent a total of 3 weeks w...   Aug 6 2007, 08:48 PM
Programmer   well one thing is for sure when ever you meet up y...   Aug 6 2007, 08:53 PM
towntown2   Keep yourself busy, 1angel3 said. Just do stuff. ...   Aug 6 2007, 09:55 PM
yupimchuck   i dated this kid for over a year and i went maybe ...   Aug 6 2007, 11:45 PM
Insurmountable   Well considering I'm in a long distance relati...   Aug 6 2007, 11:58 PM
jennypie   Stop being so selfish and get over it. 3 times a d...   Aug 7 2007, 02:56 AM
N3RDYY   QUOTE(jennypie @ Aug 7 2007, 03:56 AM) St...   Aug 7 2007, 03:45 PM
Rachel   QUOTE(N3RDYY @ Aug 7 2007, 01:45 PM) Shut...   Aug 7 2007, 05:04 PM
jennypie   QUOTE(Rachel @ Aug 7 2007, 05:04 PM) How ...   Aug 7 2007, 06:35 PM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   QUOTE(jennypie @ Aug 7 2007, 03:56 AM) St...   Aug 11 2007, 09:57 AM
xFaith   i would feel very down and would be worried he wou...   Aug 7 2007, 04:55 AM
Joss-eh-lime   My friend was attached to her ex boyfriend like no...   Aug 7 2007, 03:51 PM
Michelle   Considering I'm usually the one that goes away...   Aug 7 2007, 03:56 PM
N3RDYY   sorry its just SOFAKING harrrrd for me and i know ...   Aug 7 2007, 08:51 PM
stolen   Hang out with your friends.   Aug 7 2007, 08:52 PM
N3RDYY   QUOTE(stolen @ Aug 7 2007, 09:52 PM) Hang...   Aug 7 2007, 08:55 PM
xburnoutx00   I haven't seen my boyfriend in over two months...   Aug 7 2007, 10:05 PM
SimplicityGirl   no offence but you sound extremely clingy. He...   Aug 8 2007, 12:50 AM
pikimoo   I think everyone here should read the original pos...   Aug 8 2007, 07:36 AM
Valid   Atleast he could call you right? Have fun while he...   Aug 8 2007, 01:14 PM
xxjess-91xx   My guy went to Canada for two weeks a few months a...   Aug 12 2007, 10:36 AM
xxjess-91xx   ^^ Adding to my comment You speak to him 3 times...   Aug 12 2007, 10:39 AM
lAYDEEessence   i don't think i'll be able to survive, if ...   Aug 12 2007, 10:46 AM
Rachel   ^It was a week, not the end of the f**king world. ...   Aug 12 2007, 02:12 PM
Uronacid   You should start doing heroine. You should become ...   Aug 13 2007, 09:38 PM
Insurmountable   ^hold on is the whole boyfriend thing for if she d...   Aug 13 2007, 09:40 PM
Uronacid   QUOTE(Insurmountable @ Aug 13 2007, 10:40...   Aug 13 2007, 09:40 PM
Insurmountable   ohhhhhhhh okay Do what he said   Aug 13 2007, 09:41 PM


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