break?, another problem Options

[pinayprincess]

okay.. just to make things short

we've been together for almost a year and we just argue way too much... u can say our "love" brings us together but we've had more bad times than good so far and its just him who has really bad patience and anger....as for me, i too get defensive but i let things slide before matters come to worse... i try to manage with it by staying with him and hoping things are going to be better like when we firrst started going out....

and now unsure about having a break..... personally i dont think breaks will fix things but is it worth the risk? what to do?

[lojay]

My ex and myself were together for about 17 months and we still really love each other, a year after the break, but we've become accustomed to the fact that when we are together, we have our good times and bad times, and mostly bad times with all our fighting.

The problem I had with my ex seems similar to the problem you are having, so maybe you should keep it on lower key terms. More of a friendship status. Easier said that done? I didn't talk to my ex for about 8 months before we started getting close again... even though we secretly still loved/cared each other for those eight months?

I guess you just know what you are better off doing. If it feels right being with him, then stay with him, and if it doesn't... well, you know. Hope I helped at least a little bit.