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 Jul 29 2007, 11:15 PM
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 Communication breakdown.  Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,691  |
When you're talking with girlfriends about insecurities and whatnot, do you ever find yourself putting you down while trying to comfort them?
Once my friend was saying she wished she had long thin arms like me and I responded by saying, "I hate my arms. They're like sticks. You have muscles I'd kill for." I hate when I do that because I'm fine with (most) of my body and it always turns into this competition of putting yourself down. Erm. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? |
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Aug 2 2007, 07:55 PM
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Communication breakdown. Group: Member Posts: 603 Joined: Jul 2007 Member No: 552,691 |
LOL I admire you guys.
My problem is I dunno when to stop. But I couldn't imagine being so harsh to one of my friends when they're so vurnerable like that. And hell yeah, Mean Girls HA. I love that movie. "Four for Glen Coco. You go Glen Coco. One for Cady Harrington. Annnd none for Gretchen Weiners!" One thing I'm getting tired of though, is the implication that my friends are pathetic or shallow. It's okay to say I'm handling this problem all wrong, but my friends are neither pathetic or shallow. If being able to come to me with their problems is pathetic, so be it. If being a normal teenager who can sometimes be a bit unreasonably overaware of her flaws is shallow, then thanks, but I don't really need that kind of input. I just wanted advice on how to handle the situation because I know I'm handling it wrong and I was wondering if anybody else does so. |
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sourire DO you ever...? Jul 29 2007, 11:15 PM
revoltaire i don't talk about my 'insecurities' l... Jul 29 2007, 11:19 PM
Shanae1988 QUOTE(revoltaire @ Jul 30 2007, 12:19 AM)... Jul 30 2007, 09:48 PM
ashxx69xbaby QUOTE(revoltaire @ Jul 30 2007, 12:19 AM)... Jul 30 2007, 09:50 PM sourire I don't really know, but a lot of my friends d... Jul 29 2007, 11:23 PM towntown2 I'm not sure I understand what you mean.
But..... Jul 29 2007, 11:30 PM Chessboxxa 101 Self-depreciating comfort? Jul 29 2007, 11:34 PM sourire Lol I suppose it's like that.
"Oh stop it... Jul 30 2007, 12:02 AM revoltaire i actually do have one friend who obsesses about h... Jul 30 2007, 12:36 AM xKatt QUOTE(revoltaire @ Jul 30 2007, 12:36 AM)... Jul 30 2007, 08:38 PM smylies QUOTE(revoltaire @ Jul 30 2007, 12:36 AM)... Aug 8 2007, 03:53 AM sourire LOL I dunno if I could do that though. They always... Jul 30 2007, 12:44 AM doiink mmm i think i know what you're talking about. ... Jul 30 2007, 12:49 AM sourire LMFAO
Yeah, that's the kinda thing that goes ... Jul 30 2007, 01:15 AM LadyXTor This sounds very Mean Girl-esque.
"My breath... Jul 30 2007, 01:41 AM revoltaire QUOTE(LadyXTor @ Jul 30 2007, 01:41 AM) T... Aug 1 2007, 01:13 AM gigiopolis You know, it's funny, but I never talk about i... Jul 30 2007, 06:46 AM sourire QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Jul 30 2007, 07:46 AM)... Jul 31 2007, 12:18 AM xchrystizzle when it's a call for attention, I usually just... Jul 30 2007, 08:09 AM misoshiru my answer, "whatever. stop bitchin." Jul 30 2007, 09:37 AM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX Me and my friends dont really talk about our insec... Jul 30 2007, 12:27 PM 1angel3 Yeah I always point out one my body parts that isn... Jul 30 2007, 08:46 PM crueldade Haha, I do the opposite.
If my friends ever say, ... Jul 31 2007, 01:37 AM Insurmountable Yea, after the few minutes or comforting and then ... Jul 31 2007, 09:44 AM miiszxclassiic hmmm I never talk about my insecurities to my frie... Aug 1 2007, 12:55 AM vietbabiiix3 LOLs. My friends are mad conceited, so these thing... Aug 1 2007, 10:13 AM xSybarite I personally think it's really pathetic when p... Aug 2 2007, 07:42 PM gigiopolis ^ Sorry about that. Don't get me wrong, I... Aug 6 2007, 05:27 AM sugar_street I try to tell them I'm fat too but it makes th... Aug 6 2007, 05:43 AM Michelle Yes, those little white lies we tell >_>
O... Aug 6 2007, 10:25 AM Moderator I just tell them the straight truth. "You loo... Aug 6 2007, 11:30 AM Morbid Angel my friends are usually the ones talking about thei... Aug 6 2007, 12:34 PM |
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