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Is Life Drawing Cheating?, Is participating in a life drawing class cheating?
GirlInAus
post Jul 31 2007, 08:52 AM
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So I have a problem, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now and though we love eachother very much we can never agree on a thing and we have such different morals.

I am studying Photography and as a part of my course I have to undertake a life drawing class. Now surprise surprise, my boyfriend's not too happy.. infact it's worse then that.. he's not happy at all. He considers the fact that I've seen someone else naked is cheating. However I don't agree in the circumstances.. it is an appreciation for the human body of course and it's in a class of like 40 people and there's no feeling's involved whatsoever.. so I'm having a hard time trying to make him see things the way I do.

So what do you think.. Is participating in a life drawing class cheating?
 
 
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post Jul 31 2007, 09:48 AM
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QUOTE(sourire @ Aug 1 2007, 12:41 AM) *
Good thing is he hasn't made you choose yet. You just need to calm him down a bit. What have you said to try and reason with him? And what has he said in response?


I don't think he would ever choose really. But it's just frustrating because our morals don't exactly fit..they're getting there but not fully there yet.

I've tried to tell him how I feel and that.. like how it's just a class and I tried not to look and the drawings are just simple, not detailed pieces and that but he still is hurt by it. He hasn't really said much.. but that's just it.. he hasn't really said much. I mean he did say that I had a choice and I didn't have to do it (which I did) but then he meantioned that I didn't ask to get out of it (true, but I'm an artsy person and I do enjoy this sort of thing really.. I don't know if I want to be excluded), he basically just meantions that he wouldn't have done the same thing to me.
 

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GirlInAus   Is Life Drawing Cheating?   Jul 31 2007, 08:52 AM
Steven   Hell no. No emotional attachment. No physical at...   Jul 31 2007, 08:59 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(Steven @ Jul 31 2007, 11:59 PM) Hel...   Jul 31 2007, 09:11 AM
Steven   Ask him to explain why it's cheating.   Jul 31 2007, 09:13 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(Steven @ Aug 1 2007, 12:13 AM) Ask ...   Jul 31 2007, 09:17 AM
sourire   No of course not. If you accidentily walked in on...   Jul 31 2007, 09:14 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(sourire @ Aug 1 2007, 12:14 AM) No ...   Jul 31 2007, 09:18 AM
stormbringer   maybe you should tell him lighten up or dump him..   Jul 31 2007, 09:20 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(stormbringer @ Aug 1 2007, 12:20 AM...   Jul 31 2007, 09:26 AM
Steven   Well is that class worth jeopardizing your relatio...   Jul 31 2007, 09:22 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(Steven @ Aug 1 2007, 12:22 AM) Well...   Jul 31 2007, 09:27 AM
sourire   You have to get him to look at it as just another ...   Jul 31 2007, 09:24 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(sourire @ Aug 1 2007, 12:24 AM) You...   Jul 31 2007, 09:28 AM
Steven   Ultimatum = Do "this" or else i.e. Dro...   Jul 31 2007, 09:28 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(Steven @ Aug 1 2007, 12:28 AM) Ulti...   Jul 31 2007, 09:32 AM
stormbringer   i wouldnt really know since i've never been in...   Jul 31 2007, 09:35 AM
lostgrl16   i wouldn't consider that cheating. it's fo...   Jul 31 2007, 09:40 AM
sourire   Good thing is he hasn't made you choose yet. ...   Jul 31 2007, 09:41 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(sourire @ Aug 1 2007, 12:41 AM) Goo...   Jul 31 2007, 09:48 AM
Steven   Wait so is the class done with? Are you taking it...   Jul 31 2007, 09:50 AM
GirlInAus   QUOTE(Steven @ Aug 1 2007, 12:50 AM) Wait...   Jul 31 2007, 09:54 AM
sourire   He can't support you as you pursue your intere...   Jul 31 2007, 10:02 AM
GirlInAus   Hahah.. couldn't do that if I wanted to :)   Jul 31 2007, 10:11 AM
sourire   I suppose you could try talking, but using a diffe...   Jul 31 2007, 10:16 AM
Steven   I wouldn't try a guilt trip. I can't stan...   Jul 31 2007, 10:17 AM
lostgrl16   isnt he kinda also being selfish cause he wont sup...   Jul 31 2007, 10:18 AM
Steven   He's not going to view it as selfish if it...   Jul 31 2007, 10:21 AM
lostgrl16   he is seemingly refusing to view it in any other w...   Jul 31 2007, 10:43 AM
XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX   So he cant support your intrests? Why dont you ju...   Jul 31 2007, 02:43 PM
towntown2   Absolutely not! You're merely observing th...   Jul 31 2007, 08:30 PM
doiink   relationships are all about sacrifice.. you...   Jul 31 2007, 08:33 PM
minioligo   Is it really a morality issue? Or does it really h...   Jul 31 2007, 09:03 PM
Angelina Taylor   Your boyfriend's an idiot.   Jul 31 2007, 11:51 PM
Mercy   Tell him to stop being a pussy and let you follow ...   Aug 1 2007, 12:07 AM


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