Yeah...so....i need some advice please, its about my internet boyfriend >.> dont flame me Options

[runa-hisoka]

Ok, so like, Ive had a boyfriend over the internet now for like a little over two years. We've never met face to face one, cause neither of us can afford to fly him here, and my dad doesnt want to let me go out of state.

My parents have known about brandon since a few months into the relationship, and they seem fine with it. Its just, well, you know how dads are with their daughters.

What i know of brandon (my boyfriend) is that hes a very good man, albeit jealous out of his mind at times, but he has his reasons. I love him, atleast I think i do. How can you know though if youve never even been face to face before?

Also, ive cheated on him a few times already cause...well im clingy and i need someone to hug me and kiss me and shit, and he cant do that whiel hes in arizona and im in texas. He always took me back though...begged me back...


Basicaly, what i want to know, is should I keep waiting for when i get to meet him? Its been over two years...and its getting hard to think about someone i care so much for being so far away...

I have other friends i know over the internet (that ive met IN REAL LIFE before i talked to them over the net) that are tryign to set me up with their buddies, and i dont want to pass up on oppurtunity...i know a few of the people they are trying to set me up with already and i do like them alot...

*sigh* i dug myself into a hole didnt i? well...thats my predicament...any advice?

[GirlInAus]

I personally think you should let it be and get on with your life.
Yes, it has been a long time and yes, relationships that are over the internet CAN work out.. just like my dad and his step-wife who are married and have been for 5 years and have a child.

But I don't personally believe that you love him because love is a physical and mental state. So far you've only got mental.

Oh and have you spoken to him like video chat or something.. know he's genuine?

And also.. if you need someone to kiss and cuddle it's not going to work. You need to find someone in your area that you can spend time with.. you can't like many people at once.. it's only going to hurt you in the end.