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 Jul 30 2007, 11:21 PM
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Sometimes I feel as if I'm just too nice. Like, I try to be nice and friendly and pleasant and all that jazz as much as possible and people take advantage of it and are just mean to me all the time.
Is there such a thing as being too nice? Should a person just have a healthy balance of nice/mean, or is it true that those who are mean more than they are nice get ahead? Honestly, do you respect people who have the guts to say all that they feel even if it's awful to the person, or do you respect the people that always keep their cool and are always always nice, no matter what? |
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Jul 30 2007, 11:29 PM
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 Sing to Me  Group: Member Posts: 1,825 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,808 |
I get what you mean. I consider myself a very righteous person. I should be nice to people out of respect and consideration; other people should do the same. Apparently, I am the only one I know whose like this. I known people who are absolutely assholes who find amusement in insulting people for no reason. I also knew girls who were absolute bitches and backstabbers. Yet amazingly, these people always get people to like them and have plenty of friends. No, I don't think it's okay or you should respect anybody who can't find it in their system to be nice. Even if you're honest and you tell it like it is, you're still a jerk/a-hole. My boyfriend completely vouches for his friend who insults me for no reason and finds reason to let people I don't know how to insult me. My bf tells me that to deal with him, I should insult him back and keep up witty banter. WTF? I don't want witty/insulting banter. I want a normal, decent conversation with him. And apparently, he's a good friend who would do anything for you. STFU. If he can't be a good friend all the time, then he isn't a good friend at all. Being an a-hole can get you far nowadays. |
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ersatz Too Nice Jul 30 2007, 11:21 PM
Spencer honestly, i really like your personality now. not ... Jul 30 2007, 11:25 PM $$$ soul Nice guys finish last. Jul 30 2007, 11:38 PM doiink i used to be the pushover type, ESPECIALLY when it... Jul 30 2007, 11:42 PM stephinika I think there is definitely a thing as 'too ni... Jul 30 2007, 11:44 PM JustinSezRAWR There is such a thing. The whole "getting use... Jul 30 2007, 11:52 PM Autobahn I think there's such thing as 'being too n... Jul 30 2007, 11:52 PM sourire I feel for you homie, I'm the exact same way.
... Jul 31 2007, 12:03 AM ventriloquist Is there such a thing as being too nice?
YES! ... Jul 31 2007, 12:13 AM Elba Contrary to how I act offline ONLINE, I am the nic... Jul 31 2007, 12:19 AM Programmer ^---this is true she was really nice offline. as... Jul 31 2007, 12:20 AM Spencer i, too, am really nice offline. i joke around a lo... Jul 31 2007, 12:23 AM medicalxinjektion I am usually a really nice person offline. Online ... Jul 31 2007, 12:32 AM ersatz For those of you who said you were different (nice... Jul 31 2007, 12:46 AM Elba Actually, it's because I feel so comfortable h... Jul 31 2007, 12:48 AM kryogenix I know what you mean. I think people might be gett... Jul 31 2007, 01:39 AM Sandraaa ^ NO NO NO! Don't act more mean ... *phew*... Jul 31 2007, 03:13 AM BOOGERSHAHA most of the 'nicer' people i know in real ... Jul 31 2007, 09:51 AM XxSugarKisses-TeddyHugsxX Yes I think theirs a such thing as being "too... Jul 31 2007, 12:07 PM karmakiller I don't like people who fake being overly nice... Jul 31 2007, 02:50 PM 1angel3 I know how you feel, I try to be nice and honest a... Jul 31 2007, 02:55 PM synkro why are people comparing being mean with being hon... Jul 31 2007, 03:10 PM DarkImpressions Yea Im a nice person to a certain extent,You have ... Jul 31 2007, 03:27 PM
emazing I think that you should be nice to everyone at fir... Aug 1 2007, 01:14 PM |
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