Yeah...so....i need some advice please, its about my internet boyfriend >.> dont flame me Options

[runa-hisoka]

Ok, so like, Ive had a boyfriend over the internet now for like a little over two years. We've never met face to face one, cause neither of us can afford to fly him here, and my dad doesnt want to let me go out of state.

My parents have known about brandon since a few months into the relationship, and they seem fine with it. Its just, well, you know how dads are with their daughters.

What i know of brandon (my boyfriend) is that hes a very good man, albeit jealous out of his mind at times, but he has his reasons. I love him, atleast I think i do. How can you know though if youve never even been face to face before?

Also, ive cheated on him a few times already cause...well im clingy and i need someone to hug me and kiss me and shit, and he cant do that whiel hes in arizona and im in texas. He always took me back though...begged me back...


Basicaly, what i want to know, is should I keep waiting for when i get to meet him? Its been over two years...and its getting hard to think about someone i care so much for being so far away...

I have other friends i know over the internet (that ive met IN REAL LIFE before i talked to them over the net) that are tryign to set me up with their buddies, and i dont want to pass up on oppurtunity...i know a few of the people they are trying to set me up with already and i do like them alot...

*sigh* i dug myself into a hole didnt i? well...thats my predicament...any advice?

[CTBunny]

My Story:

I met my boyfriend in chat room in 2004 and after talking for a good few months we wanted decided to do the internet relationship thing. Trouble was I was in Ohio and he was in Tennesse...a good 10 hours away. We're only juniors in high school....our parents wouldn't let us just go on a car ride to meet up. His parents actually brougt him up to Ohio and we went to my prom together. Later that summer, I went to Tennessee for a weekend to hang out with him. It also just go happened we both interested in graphic design and we decided "Hell we can go to the same college" and we did, later on in 2006, I went to his prom and we started college together last fall. We've been going strong for 3 years now.


Now, we both lucky that our parents would do something like this for us, because in all honesty I dunno if we could of made if we didn't get to meet. But that first time I met him, I knew if we could keep going, we'd end up together somehow. My advice is to just hang in there...I know it's rough and even rougher if your one of those who needs the hugs and kisses everyday. It sounds to me as though you really love him though, and I believe you can find something that can work for yall. It's takes so much patience and if your both willingly to work at it,I think you could pull through.