Yeah...so....i need some advice please, its about my internet boyfriend >.> dont flame me Options

[runa-hisoka]

Ok, so like, Ive had a boyfriend over the internet now for like a little over two years. We've never met face to face one, cause neither of us can afford to fly him here, and my dad doesnt want to let me go out of state.

My parents have known about brandon since a few months into the relationship, and they seem fine with it. Its just, well, you know how dads are with their daughters.

What i know of brandon (my boyfriend) is that hes a very good man, albeit jealous out of his mind at times, but he has his reasons. I love him, atleast I think i do. How can you know though if youve never even been face to face before?

Also, ive cheated on him a few times already cause...well im clingy and i need someone to hug me and kiss me and shit, and he cant do that whiel hes in arizona and im in texas. He always took me back though...begged me back...


Basicaly, what i want to know, is should I keep waiting for when i get to meet him? Its been over two years...and its getting hard to think about someone i care so much for being so far away...

I have other friends i know over the internet (that ive met IN REAL LIFE before i talked to them over the net) that are tryign to set me up with their buddies, and i dont want to pass up on oppurtunity...i know a few of the people they are trying to set me up with already and i do like them alot...

*sigh* i dug myself into a hole didnt i? well...thats my predicament...any advice?

[demolished]

I personally think you either give up on him or save up your money.

What is the point of the relationship when you can't love through the eyes, cant even see him, cant detect him, don't know his atmosphere, his world, or know his signs or what kind of person he really is. You have no way of seeing his face.

If you still want to see him, save your money. If not, then you probably don't "love" that much. Then, get over him and find a better relationship. This long-distance relationship is ridiculous considering the fact that you cheated. That's not loyal and I understand you needed to be "touchy", but you threw yourself to somebody. You didn't find ways to see him although your dad didn't allow you to fly over state. It doesn't mean you can never see him. Save up your money now and wait until you get out of the house as a responsible adult. Know your shit and places in life.

remember, education should come before relationship so you can keep your goals straight.

[runa-hisoka]

I personally think you either give up on him or save up your money.

What is the point of the relationship when you can't love through the eyes, cant even see him, cant detect him, don't know his atmosphere, his world, or know his signs or what kind of person he really is. You have no way of seeing his face.

If you still want to see him, save your money. If not, then you probably don't "love" that much. Then, get over him and find a better relationship. This long-distance relationship is ridiculous considering the fact that you cheated. That's not loyal and I understand you needed to be "touchy", but you threw yourself to somebody. You didn't find ways to see him although your dad didn't allow you to fly over state. It doesn't mean you can never see him. Save up your money now and wait until you get out of the house as a responsible adult. Know your shit and places in life.

remember, education should come before relationship so you can keep your goals straight.

thanks for atleast putting effort into your post, but hun

I actualy did try, many times. I cant work right now cause i havent got a car to drive myself to work, so the only money i get is gifts. I saved up for a year, and by the time i got enough money for a plane ticket my mother got really sick and i had to help pay her hospital bill...and dotn go telling me i didnt have to pay. what, im suposed to leave my mother in debt just so i can see brandon?