my parents and my boyfriend Options

[kingdomhgirl]

My parents don't approve of me having a boyfriend. But I've already dated a guy behind their backs. (And he was a complete jerk. Anywaaays) Now I have a new boyfriend...But I don't want to go behind my parents back this time. (even though my friends are telling me to)I love them, but I also love my boyfriend just as much and I don't want to lose neither. I can totally imagine my mom and dad ignoring me if I told them if I got a boyfriend. They even gave me reasons on why I can't date.

THE REASONS

1.) I'm too young. (perhaps I am. I'm only 15.)
2.) Too stupid and crazy to know what's good for me. (That is just a typical stereotype for teenagers)
3.) My parents see a five year old version of me instead of a fifteen year old me.
4.) Guys who like me obviously only want my body.

I respect them for caring and looking after me, but I think their reasons are a little overboard. I'm obviously not throwing my body around like there's no tomorrow. I'm not THAT stupid and crazy (though I do have those moments) And, well, if I'm too young, then maybe I should have been installed with some program to not have emotions. (not that I'm a computer, mind you.)Hell, I was even sent off to a girl school. Now I can't communicate with guys properly. But I love my school still. lol.

Now a little about my boyfriend. We met on Myspace (yes, i know. but lets not go there.) We've been best of friends for two years, and we decided to meet up. He lived in Connecticut, while I lived in California. (quite a distance, eh?) But we met up in Disneyland and had the time of our lives. But my parents (especially my dad) disapproved of me hanging around with him. We became really close and he asked me out finally. I was soo SOOOOO happy. Haha...and then the day came when we had to leave. We were both crying, making promises that we'd see each other again one day. Well, we planned christmas. He can come down, except he's not over the age of 18 so he can't stay in a hotel by himself. (His dad doesn't want to come because he doesn't want to pay the airline ticket and food and hotel cost..etc etc) So he suggested my place. I know he wouldn't do anything, so I didn't see a problem with it. I suggested it to my mom who was okay with it while my dad blew up at me.

So two simple questions.
How the hell do I tell my parents about my boyfriend? (i've hinted. A LOT)
And how do I convice them to make him stay at my place for Christmas?

i know i may see a little greedy here. but, eh. it's not like i get to see the guy in person everyday. and christmas is the time where everyone gets off for vacation. (thanksgiving is too short, and summer is too long away from now.)

[kingdomhgirl]

Oh, thank you for your OOooooh so nice comments...and caring advice

@ respeldence: i think your comment works the bessst. many thanksss *bows*

@voguelove: haha sorry, once again, wrong choice of words. i care about my boyfriend just as much as i care about my parents. ><
i don't really proof read my posts....eh. but therefore, respeldence's advice makes most sense to me right now.

@ heroesandvillians: yeah, haha, myspace is stupid and crazy. i was stupid and crazy in 7th grade. and lets remember, people that have myspaces do have lives. they're just as real as me and you. yay. ugh, it's painful to hear the snide remarks I get when i tell i met him on myspace. heh. but that's what i got myself into and i'm staying with it. but anyhoo, i just really don't know how to approach my parents with this situation. they're going to find out pretty soon though. and i'm willing to suffer the consequence now =]

okay, shotgun, not "madly in love." sorry once again for choosing the wrong kind of words in sentences sometimes. but i do thank you for caring about how i'll get killed in my own house. but we haven't just met once ._. we like, knew each other for a week in real life and two years online >> *sighs*, excuses, excuses.