my parents and my boyfriend Options

[kingdomhgirl]

My parents don't approve of me having a boyfriend. But I've already dated a guy behind their backs. (And he was a complete jerk. Anywaaays) Now I have a new boyfriend...But I don't want to go behind my parents back this time. (even though my friends are telling me to)I love them, but I also love my boyfriend just as much and I don't want to lose neither. I can totally imagine my mom and dad ignoring me if I told them if I got a boyfriend. They even gave me reasons on why I can't date.

THE REASONS

1.) I'm too young. (perhaps I am. I'm only 15.)
2.) Too stupid and crazy to know what's good for me. (That is just a typical stereotype for teenagers)
3.) My parents see a five year old version of me instead of a fifteen year old me.
4.) Guys who like me obviously only want my body.

I respect them for caring and looking after me, but I think their reasons are a little overboard. I'm obviously not throwing my body around like there's no tomorrow. I'm not THAT stupid and crazy (though I do have those moments) And, well, if I'm too young, then maybe I should have been installed with some program to not have emotions. (not that I'm a computer, mind you.)Hell, I was even sent off to a girl school. Now I can't communicate with guys properly. But I love my school still. lol.

Now a little about my boyfriend. We met on Myspace (yes, i know. but lets not go there.) We've been best of friends for two years, and we decided to meet up. He lived in Connecticut, while I lived in California. (quite a distance, eh?) But we met up in Disneyland and had the time of our lives. But my parents (especially my dad) disapproved of me hanging around with him. We became really close and he asked me out finally. I was soo SOOOOO happy. Haha...and then the day came when we had to leave. We were both crying, making promises that we'd see each other again one day. Well, we planned christmas. He can come down, except he's not over the age of 18 so he can't stay in a hotel by himself. (His dad doesn't want to come because he doesn't want to pay the airline ticket and food and hotel cost..etc etc) So he suggested my place. I know he wouldn't do anything, so I didn't see a problem with it. I suggested it to my mom who was okay with it while my dad blew up at me.

So two simple questions.
How the hell do I tell my parents about my boyfriend? (i've hinted. A LOT)
And how do I convice them to make him stay at my place for Christmas?

i know i may see a little greedy here. but, eh. it's not like i get to see the guy in person everyday. and christmas is the time where everyone gets off for vacation. (thanksgiving is too short, and summer is too long away from now.)

[HeroesAndVillian...]

You know what. That one that you just smacked away as a stereo type, You're the one who actually met up with a guy you met up with on myspace. So yeah you are too stupid and crazy to make good decisions. But most of those reasons probably have some reasoning behind them. Talk to your parents about why they won't let you date. I've got a system set up with my mom at least and my dad will resist but he knows he can chase off the bad ones I pick...

I could have a bf at 13
mass group dating at 16
double dating at 17
and single dating at 18. I've hit the first one... haven't quite met up with the rest mostly cause I'm single now....